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Im An 18yr Old Virgin Going On 19 At First I Didn't Care About It But People I Knew Found Out An They Started Laughing Calling Me A Loser An Stuff It Got Worse From There When I Went To Work I Had People Coming Up To Me Saying Are You Still A Virgin I Said Yeah They Laughed An Said Oh My God You Need To Get A Life I Started Getting Stuff Thrown At Me Like Cans Of Coke etc I Never Told The Boss About It Incase He Laughed The Ones At Work Bought Me A Blow Up Doll An Said Have Fun
I Got Invited To A Party I Thought Maybe I'll Go Take Stress Off When I Got There I Was Forced Into A Room By A Group Of People My Age Who I Thought Were Friends I Was TIed To A Chair They Put Porn On Made Me Watch It An Said Were Not Untying You Until Its Over
Look What Your Missing Out On To Bad You Wont Get None
An I Havent Had Success With Any Girl No Matter How Nice Iam To Them I Just Fail All The Time An I Don't Wanna Pay For It Cause That Makes Me Feel Worse I Dont Know What To Do Ive Thought Of Sucide A Few Times Not Much Point In Living If I Cant Find Love
I Fear When My Parents Die Il Have No One Sitting By myself With No Girl In My Life Whatsoever an being a virgin the rest of my life Ive Tryed Numerous Times An Ive Failed With Girls An The Thoughts Of That Scares Me
Now Ive Turned To Drugs Such As Speed Acid E's Smoke 8 Grams Of Weed everyday sometimes mix the weed with speed
The Drugs Dont Make Me Feel Like A Loser But If I Give Them Up Il Feel Im Stuck Dont Know What To Do
You are a loser if you carry on with the drugs, get rid of them for a start, thats something that will put a girlfriend off, and you are still very young so dont worry about the lack of girlfriend yet.
Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of, I wonder how many of your work mates have a STDs from sleeping around. thats something to be asahamed of.
K its pretty messed up of those kids to make fun of you honey... but you are so young. Life is worth living no matter what. Things can be resolved.
Girls well at least the ones worth giving a chance, They should respect you for being true to your self. No reason to have sex to prove something to anyone. Sex is a special bond... That our society has taken a on.
Girls also like confiedence.. would you want to be with someone who didn't like them self? You can do it. Think positive it may take time but just taking charge of your life and feeling good about your self does wonders. If you are alone then everyone else is missing out. Go get a make over get some new clothes work it!!!
Quit the durgs.. the drugs you got wont make you feel better pretty soon you'l lfind its the onlylittle part of your life your keeping together.
You being a virgin is admirable; at least that is what normal people think.
You abusing drugs is not admirable; at least that is what normal people think.
It is no wonder you feel pulled in 2 different directions, you live at opposite ends of the spectrum, which is not easy.
As for your virginity, forget about those screwballs you work with. I agree with the above answer in that they are simply jealous because they probably all have STD’s and you don’t. Do you work with ANY normal people? I think they are doing it simply to get a rise out of you, so to speak, and obviously it works. Maybe in some way they think by you being a virgin that you somehow think you are better than them. Do you think you are better than them? Do they abuse drugs too? Do you abuse drugs with them?
As for the drugs, you really don't expect anyone here to tell you that doing drugs is okay... do you? Of course you don’t. I feel you need to work on your problem with drugs first and the rest will work itself out in time. Probably the reason why most people abuse drugs, other than a genetic factor, is low self-esteem. What is so bad about your reality that you feel you need to be numb to go through it? You need to figure that out first.
Instead of taking drugs over being bullied, learn a valuable lesson about life and go ahead, wiser. Never tell anyone your private sexual business!!!!! That goes for your financial business, too. Most people you work with are just morons!!!!!
Make yourself available to the opposite sex....join a club, take a night school course(very good to meet females!!!), volunteer(lots of females volunteer at hospitals, libraries, nursing homes, habitat for humanity, all kinds of organizations.
You just have to meet a higher class of females....no more druggies and mockers!
Love is not the only thing life is about, regardless of what anyone tells you. and at 18 I wouldn't expect you to have found love yet anyways. There's no need to resort to drugs just because you are young and haven't found love YET. Drugs are stupid, irresponsible, and of bad taste. No one wants to be around a drug-addict. Drugs will only lead you down a lonelier, more sorrowful road then you are on now. You won't find a woman if you don't get your head out of your and start realizing that drugs are NEVER the right answer (sorry for being harsh, but i have lost many loved ones to drugs and i hate to hear of someone else doing it to themselves).
About the women. You are only 18. Do you have any idea how much TIME you have to find a lover (unless you keep doing drugs that is)? You're not an idiot, you're not stupid, you are not a p*ssy. These people that tease you, they are bullies. They pick on you for not getting what they probably don't get. Tell your boss about them. No one deserves to be treated the way that you were. They should be punished for that.
Not all women are going to warm up to you. And just because and you're 18 and still a virgin doesn't say anything of you. I know plenty of people that are 18 and still virgins...I have friends that are 22 and still virgins. It's something to be commended for, not harassed or made to feel bad for.
You should hold your head up high with the confidence that you never gave into the teenage temptations. You should feel proud that you are one of the few men still out that that women can respect and look up to.
Here's my advice. Get off the drugs. Go to rehab if necessary. Get a DIFFERENT job. Try somewhere across town or somewhere that nto a lot of people will know you. Go to counseling. Anyone that has been hazed and harassed the way you have probably has some serious psychological issues. Then, once you feel confident in YOURSELF the women will start to pick-up on that and things can start from there.
If there is one thing a woman can sense it's a man that's confident in himself.
my ex was 21 and a virgin when i meet him. also there are alot of people out there practicing abstenence your not the worlds only virgin! lol and dont do drug some on be smart. i wouldnt date a druggie, mabie neither would other women...? there are billions of women on this earth you will eventually meet one who likes you. just be ur self. trying dating site even if there just to find friends....real ones Plentyoffish.com Free Online Dating Service & Dating Site becides i think you need to grow and amture a bit before you get a gf. be more independent and dont look for a gurl. you have to be ok with you as a single before you can be a succesfull couple. ok
The drugs have got to stop. No body wants a relationship with someone who is addicted to drugs. You are a drug addict.
As for being a virgin, that is your private business, you shouldn't have told anyone to begin with. I can't believe that they have treated you this way, you have to stand up for yourself and tell someone. Also, with friends like these, you don't need enemies. You are only 18, there's no shame in still being a virgin. There is a girl out there for you, probably more than one. Get your life together, stop the drugs and then start looking for a mate, until then, you aren't ready.
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