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please help? i am 30 and my hubby is 32 he is avoiding me like a plague. He says that he is tired and stressed out from work i do understand that but i'm still recovering from him having an affair last year he saw me go through such a painful experience why would he deprive me of sex or reject me when i initiate it what is wrong with me.
and what i really can't understand is that he is very horny when he is having an affair and that seems to be the pattern it's now a pattern because it happen three times in the 11 years that we are married. He doesn't want me to leave he says he loves me , then how can he have the heart to do this to me over and over. DOES HE HAVE A HEART?
he ain't treating you right and giving little regard to how you feel
you gotta come up with some catchy way to get him to respond and bring him out of his own little world of desires.
Good for you girl! No one deserves to be cheated on. My philosiphy is, if you cant commit to one person or you have sexual urges for other people, end the relationship/marriage before you go through with it. Its very selfish and cruel to put someone you supposedly "love" through it. If he loved you he wouldnt be doing it..simple as that. BTW..do you know for sure if he is doing it? There may be signs but you never know. Id at least confront him before I make any decisions. But if your sure then your doing the right thing. Sounds like you have had enough of his malarky along time ago.
His actions already have shown he doesn't care about your feelings, and he may be getting wanderlust again. He only cares about his own way of thinking and excuses aside he is setting up his next move. Either way back off him. He doesn't deserve your attention, nor should you push it. Get someone to talk to, to guide you, for now thru the healing process, and if he would go with you, which I doubt, it could help a lot. If not, plan "B" may start looking better, and better.
You say he cheated three times.....
that you KNOW of!
Whether or not he is seeing someone right now he is cheating you now because he is not being the husband you need and want.
Yeah, hitting him where it hurts is sweet revenge. You should have divorced this user/loser long ago, I think. What should really be making you angry, and maybe it is, is that he has used you for years!
You deserve the best. Be kind and honest, and say bye bye.
Oh, he has a heart alright. It's just that he is luxuriously supported by society in living the lie that women are servants. Withdraw your investment in that lie. If no woman put up with that crud, it would end.
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