- - -> Does having sex for the first time hurt? I'm so terrified that'll it will hurt that i've managed to keep my boyfriend off of me for the time being, i'm just wondering if someone could describe the amount of pain a women goes through? no detail's lol i'm just terrified and would like to know. any answers would help!

AbL6669

It sounds like you are not ready for sexual intercourse. *How do i keep my boyfriend off of me* When you have sex for the first time you will feel ready know your ready. You may still be scared and if he does not go slow for you or do it right it can hurt. But you can ready your body for it.

Learn your body, The Vagina Monologue's say it right when they talk about looking in the mirror. Look at yourself, all of you even the most sensual parts. The body is beautiful the curves even all the imperfections. The body fat around the middle (the waist) is so sensual. Many belive that you are a real woman if there is a bit more there.

Touch your self next, feel your breasts know their roundness the indentions. How when you are sexually turned on how your nipples peak and what color they turn. The areola will change colors pink or brown to a darker color when the blood rushes to them.

There are many more things to tell you and i suggest that you read up on there are many books out there that can help you.

But do not be afraid of yourself If you know yourself you will be less afraid when you do decide to take the next step with a man or a woman. And the pain if there is any will non existent. But there could be some un-natural things that will make it hurt and and maybe a trip to the gynecologist will clear that up. Ask he questions and of course ways to not become Pregnant until that time that you wish.

BIGBOPPER

uh, just exactly what did you lose your virginity too???????