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I've just split up form my girlfriend and we were together for about 18 months. We had sex a lot it was one of are ways of making up after an argument or to kind of spice are love life up a little. Now were finished i feel like i really need it! I still keep in contact with my ex and she says the same thing and there have been occasions when we have had sex and were not even seeing each other. I know i really shouldnt do that but i just feel like i need sex and i feel like im proper odd because i dont no anyone who seems to need it as much as me!
Everybody has different sex drives. I personally do not think it is important. It sounds like sex was more important in you and your ex partner then actually having a relationship. You have seen how that works out. It does not. This should be a learning experiance for future courtship.
I no how u feel!!! crap aint it!!! me an my boyfriend recently broke up an i miss it like mad!!! i jus try not to think about it!! my best mate is in the same situation, well her boyfriend is in the army, she dnt see him very often!!! we have banned our selfs from talkin bout sex but we always end up talkin bout it!!! find a new f**k buddy!! as soon as im over my ex thats what im gunna do , lol!!!! sounds bad but i dnt care ne more!!!
Sex drives, while natural, become a hindrance when like this. It might be normal to feel like having sex almost all the time, but being unable to control it isn't.
No, sex is less important than having a relationship that can thrive without the emphasis on the sexual activities. If all you can communicate is related to sex, then I do feel you need some more maturity. This is not to say that sex is not necessary - it is. But it is not the first and foremost component in a long term relationship.
A lot of people feel that way. It's perfectly natural, especially when you're going from a situation where you get regular sex to where you're not getting any. I know there have been times when I felt like I needed it.
Healthy relationships should have sex as an expression of the relationship. The relationship shouldn't exist simply to justify the sex... that's not a healthy attitude towards either. Of course, I've been perfectly happy in an unhealthy relationship or two in my time, so your mileage may vary.
I just know age does have lots to do with it. You sound very very immature. Making sex more important then a relationship. Your loss, not mine. Like the above said it is not the first and foremost component in a true long term relationship.
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