My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a few months now oral and intercourse.....now heres my question i have never even come close to having an orgasim during intercourse but when he does oral on me and i start to feel like im going to have an orgasim i cant let him keep going and it is starting to irritate him.....but im not even sure if it is an orgasim bc i have never had one......any suggestions?

J_9

How old are you hun?

patriotpride77

could be that this has nothing to do with yoru body but some soul searching you have to do to find out why you feel uncomfortable sexually. could it be his style? a memory of yours you have blocked inhibiting you. it will come to you. try experimenting with toys to see what you like and teach it to him for the real thing. that way its in a private setting till you get yourself figured out. all kinds of women cant orgasm for a lot of reasons.. inhibitions, phobias, poor self body image and the most common fear of letting go of power. recieiving an orgasm is a very intense way of vulerability and trust. maybe you should step back and put sex on hold till you and him get closer. just some ideas.

Synnen

I would please like the OP to answer with her age before people give any more answers to this question.

curious13237

i am 23 and it is not that i dont feel comfortable with him or anybody else i am a very open person but i just dont know why i get ready to orgasim but never let him finish

talaniman

You mean let yourself finish don't you. Does something bad happen when you have an orgasm?

Choux

Too much stroking gets really tedious and unpleasant if you really aren't very experienced in having orgasms. A good way to get a urinary track infection, too.

I would say, develop your orgasmic potential thru fantasizing, masturbation, ....get a book by a sex therapist and learn and do exercises to increase your passion.

Good Luck!