do women like giving a oral? because being a man i always feel only i get pleasure. what does the girl get out of it?

smoothy

My wife does.....I don't even have to beg for it. Besides she told me so. In fact I rarely have to even ask for one.

Synnen

I do. It's a great feeling of power and control, really--and I like knowing that what I do turns my partner on, which turns me on even more in turn.

Of course, I like *receiving* oral too!

talaniman

Some do, and get great pleasure from it, and some don't.

hollylovesbrandon

I like pleasuring my man. there's a certain sense of satisfaction knowing you can do exactly what he wants. That's all the pleasure that I need.

Choux

I loved to "feel up" my special boyfriends and could orgasm just from that.

I was never much for oral sex except for my husband, rather a really, really special man. I have to laugh, the night I lost my virginity, my boyfriend asked for oral sex, and so I went to it, only to hear laughter and, "It's not a corncob!" LOL!!

Memories!
LOLOL!!

kp2171

my partner would probably say sometimes yes, sometimes no.

when i step out of the shower and she is waiting for me in the bath, motioning for me to come over to her Now... well, thats about the sexiest thing in the world. shes doing it just to get me off... right then, immediately.

likewise, when i pull her hips to the edge of the bed at 5am and kiss her softly until she practically pulls at my head and makes it hard to breathe... well, its about the best damn way to start the day.

what does she get out of it when she goes down?

when its oral just to get me off, and not oral to precede intercourse, i think its part power and part kindness.

my partner knows i can get off in her anytime. there is no problem with that.

so she and i both see oral as a "gesture" of complete pleasure. sure, i know if i can get her off orally that she is "primed" for sex... but i tend to think of oral as a "selfless act"... i LOVE seeing her arch her back and moan, i LOVE seeing her touch herself because she just cannot hold back.

tell me that there is ANYTHING sexier than a woman getting off, with your mouth on her, and her hands on her breasts with her back arched... i think you are an idiot if you thing otherwise.

that said, why cant she feel the same about you getting off orally?

LifePaparazzi

No, most women find it disgusting. However, love will make a woman do many strange things. But in general, NO Guys, don't fool yourselfs in to believing otherwise. A woman may tell you they enjoy it, but the joy is in giving..... not doing.

Synnen

Maybe I'm not most women, but I actually DO enjoy it.

Most of my female friends do, too.

Of course, none of us are in any way sexually repressed, either, and most of us have done things we never would have thought of doing when we were new to sex.

nauticalstar420

I enjoy it as well. I like knowing that I am the reason that my husband is pleased and satisfied. Giving him oral actually satisfies me as well.