Dislikes Orgasm

Nisqo28 · #1 Oct 19, 2006, 02:23 PM

Me and my gf have been together for over a year and we have not had sex yet but we do everything else, she hasnt orgasmed fully yet she stops me from touching her when she starts having muscle contractions she says sh doesnt like the feeling of the contractions i have no idea what is wrong please someone help lol

The WB · Oct 19, 2006, 02:37 PM

An orgasm comes with a loss of control. She is probably scared of that loss of control.

Nisqo28 · Oct 19, 2006, 02:40 PM

ye she is shy to orgasm as she has never had one before even on her own but should this make her dislike the contractions

cyberslider · Dec 13, 2006, 09:42 AM

she may need to be a little drunk to get herself to loose control and enjoy whats happening the key to great sex is your partner taking control of your body from you once she lets that happen she will be back for more

talaniman · Dec 13, 2006, 10:26 AM

Again, I have agreed, when I disagree. I don't recommend any one getting some one drunk to enjoy sex. Not good. I would go slow with this female and talk to her. She may have some issues with you or this relationship. Go slow.



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