Ok i have been answering questions on this site for just over a week now and i might add enjoyed it, but i am now interested in peoples views on the following.

What is the difference between Sex and Love making?

For many years i have had what i call Sex with my husband , sometimes good and lasts all night yet sometimes shopping list in the mind!

Then i meet a man who only has to talk to me and he blows my mind, completely takes my mind, body and soul to where no man has reached in the 18 years i have been active.

Is it me? or is there quite clearly a difference for everyone?

iscorpio

that maybe how you feel but you are so wrong, many men love their women and respect them and when they have intercourse then they make love and is not just a ruse, it may be for many men like yourself as you said it not i, but for many men also love is love and yes communication is all levels is reached, because if you love someone all you want to do is please each other, that is the difference between wham bam thank you mam and lets all think of england, i think that if that is how it is for you then you truly have never loved. Take care, love and peace anne x

diya

Clearly as the word says....Making love....."love that exists and needs to be made to fulfill it's meaning...while Sex is simple sex..may have an element of love or may not...very fine distinction and hard to distinguish...yet making love denotes a more fulfilling connotation attached to it....

chemdiaster

I feel like i shouldnt even be answering this question because I am only 18, but here are my two cents..... I have only made love once, it was with a guy that i had true feelings for and he returned the feelings... the sex was great I felt like there was such love and compassion between the two of us that that made the differnece. Sex for me is one of things that you do when you are bored, for me its with someone that I take no person inventory for he's just there helping me through my sex attacts. LOL