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Asked Apr 20, 2011, 10:48 AM — 10 Answers
I had my girl for a while n we was in need of sum fast money due to me getting lock up so she started working as a waitress on a stripclub but one night she told me that she had sex w this guy for some money that she wanted to give me now my question is she told me the guy was a little bigger so did she had pleasure? Or was she really trying get sum money ?
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Apr 20, 2011, 10:49 AM
How old are you?

Have you asked her?
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Apr 20, 2011, 10:51 AM
We both 22 n she say she didn't but in my mind I don't really know
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Apr 20, 2011, 10:53 AM
You and your "girl" need to have a serious talk about this. Just ask her. I would strongly consider looking for a new "girl", unless you're cool with her sleeping around for money or pleasure.
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Apr 20, 2011, 11:58 AM
Spell the words out.....we don't like chat-speak....in this forum, you are supposed to be an adult. Children think chat-speak is cute...and imbeciles can't help themselves. Everyone else can take the time and spell the words.

I'm being nicer about it then the next person is going to be. At least two of them are moderators that can delete the entire thread.
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Apr 20, 2011, 12:12 PM
She is the only person who can answer that question.

The question you both need to answer is how much damage was done to your relationship by her having sex with someone else and by her decision (and the reasons behind it) to prostitute herself.

I also suggest that she (and you too if you are out and having sexual contact with her) get tested for sexually transmitted diseases and infections.

Unless you live in a place where prostitution is legal, what she did is dangerous from not only on health related points but legal as well. Work together to find safer ways to make money. Ones that don't endanger the relationship or yourselves.

Good luck to both of you.
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May 6, 2011, 03:11 PM
You get locked up and your girl becomes a prostitute to help pay the bills...it sounds like you have other issues than if she did or did not get pleasure from her "John"
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May 6, 2011, 05:39 PM
And she was a jerk for telling you that he was bigger.
And bigger does not have anything to do with more pleasure.

Sounds more like 14 year old than a 22 year old
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May 6, 2011, 10:17 PM
Wait a minute wait a minute..... She sleeps with another man for money, and all you're worried about is, "did his size pleasure her?" !

You have bigger problems then that my friend.

That's ONE thing I know you have BIGGER.

When someone has sex for money, that's called prostitution.

If you two are having money issues, then perhaps taking up a second LEGITIMATE job would/could help out.

Also, how are we supposed to know if she had great satisfaction from him?

Ask her. You obviously don't mind that she slept with anohter, so why should you mind if it was good.
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May 6, 2011, 11:07 PM
Yes, she loved every minute of it. Bigger is better, and being a prostitute is a huge turn on. Where the heck is the sarcasm font?

You both have serious issues. Your girlfriend prostituted herself for money, and not only did she do that, but she told you about it, and she told you how big the guy was.

To top it all off, you're not even concerned about the fact that your girlfriend is a cheap whore, you're concerned that her John was better in bed then you.

Time to rethink your priorities.
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