At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them
answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in
answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you
will be able to:
Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+
topics.
okaay,
this sounds awkward and like.. weird? but i suck at masturbating. im not a virgin, and ive been masturbated by guys, but it never feels as good when i do it? i try to do it the same way, but it just sucks.. the only thing that can ever do anything for me is clitoral stimulation, but it still isnt as good as when a guy is fingering me
any suggestions?
sorry its such a werid topic
clitoral stimulation is masturbation...if it's getting you off then it serves the same purpose doesn't it? I can't get myself off by fingering me or masturbating...i can only do clitoral stimulation too...trust me, there's not a big difference.
okaay,
this sounds awkward and like.. weird? but i suck at masturbating. im not a virgin, and ive been masturbated by guys, but it never feels as good when i do it? i try to do it the same way, but it just sucks.. the only thing that can ever do anything for me is clitoral stimulation, but it still isnt as good as when a guy is fingering me
any suggestions?
sorry its such a werid topic
Educate your current partner or you will have to seek one more appropriate.
Patience is key to relaxing and enjoying intimate times. Let your partner know where they're doing it right and where they're doing it wrong. If you don't, you'l be better off with self-serve. And that would be too bad.
If you are finding difficulty in pleasing yourself, think about what excites you. Try a preamble of something you find sexy and exciting before you masturbate. Maybe do an internet search on something sexual that excites you but maybe you aren't ready to try in real life. Something that makes you think, feel, and breathe sex. Maybe if you try waiting a bit, denying yourself pleasure, and then see if you are better able to excite yourself.
Educate your current partner or you will have to seek one more appropriate.
Patience is key to relaxing and enjoying intimate times. Let your partner know where they're doing it right and where they're doing it wrong. If you don't, you'l be better off with self-serve. And that would be too bad.
I think you misread her question, its not that her partner is falling short, it's that she feels she is when it comes to self-service.
As for my advice...I'm not quite sure what to say.
1. I'm not a girl
2. From what I know, everyone above me is right, what gets you off is what gets you off, if the clitoris is your niche (sp?) then work with that.
3. Just throwing this one out there, if you really feel the need to give yourself some internal pleasure, try using a toy, or ask your partner how he does it so that you can do it.
I hope some of these suggestions are halfway helpful.
clitoral stimulation is masturbation...if it's getting you off then it serves the same purpose doesn't it? I can't get myself off by fingering me or masturbating...i can only do clitoral stimulation too...trust me, there's not a big difference.
same here ive never need to put fingers in , i like the shower as well
Linear Mode
