After a full blown orgasum i sometimes starting bawling? does anyone know why this happens to me? i curl up into a ball and just cry until i feel like im mellow again.?

artlady

Honey ,your the only one who understand why you feel this way.
You have to dig deep and try to ask yourself "why do I feel this way"?
Loving is meant to make you feel whole and complete and safe from the world.
Its great you have a guy who understands but he must feel like an abuser after the fact.
Talk it out with him if it ever happens again.
Talk and more talk.
If this continues to affect your life in a negative way ,I think some counseling would be of benefit to you.
Everyone can benefit from a good therapist!

MamaLette

I just dont understand what im feeling??????????? it just happens ugh thanks.

artlady

I'm sorry I could not answer your question but that does not mean others won't have some ideas.
Dig deep and try to get in touch with the feelings as they are happening.
Am I feeling:
sad
guilty
mad
frustrated
anxious
worried
Dig down and try to place a name to the feeling.

MamaLette

Alright. i will, but now im nervous about getting off. But i will for sure talk to my boyfriend about it when its going on. It upsets me to know i dont have the answer for myself. thank you for your effort.

artlady

Find some solace in the fact that you can orgasm through intercourse,many of us women find it very difficult ,if not impossible.

Wondergirl

I'm guessing it's just hormones that are telling you to let loose emotionally. The young teen girl might cry and emote a lot, as does a pregnant woman, as does the menopausal woman. Hormones out of control. Think PMS too -- hormones. We women are made that way. Females in certain cultures let loose easily, and others hold it in, but the emotion then gets channeled elsewhere, into anger or sarcasm or even into wild happiness.

MamaLette

Thats a really good point. thank you.