Hey, I have been blessed with a wife who gives the best oral....My trouble is I can't keep going after the "o". She wants to keep going but I can't physically take it. It'slike a full body tickling, heart racing, feels like I will have a heart attack if I don't make her stop....But I want to keep enjoying this...what can I do? Anyone else dealt with this?

akhilz

Relax & Let Go :-)

kp2171

explain...

youre saying she takes you to orgasm and then she wants sex and you cannot because of how you feel?

hate to say it, but if thats the case, the order is screwed up.

you should give HER oral first. get her to orgasm or close. then intercourse to see if you can get her over the top or get her "seconds"

then, if she wants to do oral on you after shes had a fix, then fine. also... men sometimes need a rebound period, even if they havent hit orgasm yet.

when im focusing on my partner my mind isnt on what im feeling, especially if im giving oral. after shes satisfied, much of the time its better for me to stop, relax a minute, trace her body with my fingers and play a little, and then start up again...

ive a partner who is also fantastic at oral. ive told her so. but rather than have this be the "norm" for sex, id rather give her oral and play with intercourse. if that doesnt work for some reason, oral is always a great backup... or, as ive told her, oral is a great "surprise gift"... like you step out of the shower and shes waiting for you in the bathroom... or she stops you in the middle of the hall and she pulls your pants down...

oral sex is completely selfless when the woman gives it. when a man gives it, its mixed. most women prefer oral and have greater success at reaching orgasm with oral, but it also naturally stimulates the woman to receive the man better, and its a win-win.

if she insists on giving you oral to orgasm, i think you need to insist on giving her attention first, even if that mean holding her back and letting her know you arent going to be touched until shes taken care of.