confused, am i bi?

eitsim · May 26, 2008, 07:35 PM

i am so scare and confused right now. I am 20 yr old girl and i really dont know if i am bi or not. this is getting too weird for me. I've been dreaming and having dreams about her. She's my friend cousin and she's a bit younger them i am (she's 17). The thing is she's straight out bi and has a frekin girlfriend! I know for sure i like guys and i currently still have a crush on a guy friend of mine. Every time he smile or talk i like just smile all silly and stupid, but now its like that with her too! and it only happens to her, no other girls! Is it because she often dress like a guy? but she is soo frekin cute and... i dont know, i dont what to be bisexsual... what should i do? i cant tell my family, it will just kill them if i am bi. I really really am soo confused about this. what should i do???!!!

eitsim · Jun 3, 2008, 07:03 PM

thanks everyone for the help...i decided to talk to her with her girlfriend and they totally understand. they told me that they dont so much think i am bi and now that i talked to someone about it, i know for sue that i am not. they told me that when they were younger they had feelings for others girls and i never have, and its just because i have so many stressful things in my life now i just take comfort in her and its normal for other to think that (she) is cute and might mistaken for real feelings. so thanks for all the help and suggestion...

fizzpop · Jun 20, 2008, 06:45 PM

it's most likely that you are a lesbian and should begin to deal with this fact post-haste. there is no such thing as bisexual.

N0help4u · Jun 22, 2008, 04:46 AM

Just because you smile and are attracted does not mean you would actually think of or want to do sexual things with a girl. People confuse having a admiring attraction to the same sex.
Some people do say that it means you are gay or bi, but I don't agree because who hasn't had an admiring attraction to a teacher, a friend, a movie star or even their own mother.
You just have a strong admiration most likely.
If you are having thoughts of wanting to have physical sexual type contact with her then I might agree that you could possibly be bi.



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