Confused about my sexuality.

confusedandsad · #1 Jul 9, 2007, 12:33 PM

I am a 21 years old female who is very confused about my sexuality. I am always having crushes on older woman (by older i mean like in their 30-40). But i never think of having sex with them, all i want is to have them to hold me close, to kiss them, just to be around them. I recently having a crush on a 54 years old woman who is never gotta have a relationship with me. All of my crushes are married, straight and all have authority power over me. I am not sure if i am really a lesbian? I am so confused, i don't know what to do with it at all. Anyone have any advice?

Xrayman · Jul 9, 2007, 03:16 PM

I think you are bisexual-psychologically speaking. What I mean is that there are many branches to human sexuality and different "grades" if you like, you may think bisexually but not act upon it in a sexual-physical way.

perhaps it is a fetish of yours-but I don't think (as you know) that you are fully bisexual or fully lesbian-you are just you.

Enjoy your fantasies and love yourself. bisexuality or lesbianism is only a problem if YOU don't accept it.

if you'd like you could pm me and I could clarify my ideas for you.

cheers-and don't worry!

musical_hood_angel_2010 · Jul 9, 2007, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by confusedandsad

I am a 21 years old female who is very confused about my sexuality. I am always having crushes on older woman (by older i mean like in their 30-40). But i never think of having sex with them, all i want is to have them to hold me close, to kiss them, just to be around them. I recently having a crush on a 54 years old woman who is never gotta have a relationship with me. All of my crushes are married, straight and all have authority power over me. I am not sure if i am really a lesbian? I am so confused, i don't know what to do with it at all. Anyone have any advice?

i feel that you should be happy with who you r dont let nobody take your pride or anything. but please DONT email me nasty things because im NOT gay. IM STRAIGHT. YOU HEAR ME!!!!!! STRAIGHT!!!!! thank-you have a nice day lady. plus im too young im only 15. AND IM NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN. WE CAN B FRIENDS THOUGH.

Jesushelper76 · Jul 9, 2007, 03:38 PM

confusedandsad,

It does sound to me that your bisexual as well. May I ask how long have you been feeling this way?

Xrayman, said it best. There are many different grades or levels of sexuality. Why do you think there is so much confusion or are you having trouble excepting that it is quite possible that you enjoy both sexes?

alexis_2009_detroit · Jul 9, 2007, 04:21 PM

You is too young to be interested in old woman, i think that if your going to be gay you should **** someone around your age and it wouldnt seem bad and you wouldnt seem worried but your probably just embarrassed of what people might think



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