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Originally Posted by SecretSam87 I am a 20 year old female and I have never had intercourse and have been attempting (well my boyfriend has been attempting) to get me off without actually having full-on intercourse. Unfortunately to both of our dismay nothing seems to work. He has had a considerable amount of experience in this arena and feels frustrated and his lack of ability to get me to orgasm. When he touches me, I often feel the sensation like I have to pee or slight pain. Sometimes it even tickles a little bit, but nothing remotely like pleasure. I have tried masturbation, but cannot get off in the conventional way (using only my own hands or a vibrator). I have found a method that works, but it's not something that can work with two people. I was wondering if I am in some way messed up or if he is just in the wrong general area or if there is something else that I can do to get off. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.  |
I know what you are saying, many people cannot climax in the usaul way-this is because of our own sexual training-eg. many men ejaculate too quickly because they trained themselves to do it quick to avoid discovery by parents etc. many girls masturbate lying down face forward for the same reason-some girls rub their vulvas against pillows etc. all these techniques work well by them selves, but when a partner is involved, well problems arise-you may need help with your "technique" to get your partner to assist you doing your thing, then progressively try with him doing it all by himself for you...
pm me for further information
cheers.
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