Well i've been with my boyfriend for 1year, it has been wonderful with ups and downs ofcourse. We get along great have a mutual understanding with each other and respect. but there is that one part of the relationship that really bugs me. When we first started dating we would do it about 4 to 5 times a week, that was great for me, but there is that part of his life which is his obsession and that is running marathons. He loves to do these things, now that we have been together he started doing two of them in a year, he tells me he feels great right now and he loves to run. but when he is training we have less sex, maybe 3 times a week or sometimes just twice. I don't know if i'm just too demanding, last night we spoke about this and i told him i wanted more sex in the relationship, he told me that i concentrate and think too much about that part of the relationship, that there are more important things, i mean when we are together intimately we are so much alike in the things we like, man its amazing he's always interested in pleasing me first before himself and maybe thats what i want more of. then my mind starts to wonder and i start thinking maybe he isn't interested or he has someone else. i guess that is the first reaction. please give some advice on this, am i being too demanding of him and should i respect his love for running.

MarkRealEstateConsultant

This is not in my professional field but as an ex college gymnast - sex didn't interfere with my training.

Most BF's or husbands want more not less. But if he's worth keeping then respect his wish, and take care of your needs without going outside of the relationship.

jennikins8900

My boyfriend hasn't wanted me since july 18, 2007, we had a baby aug. 17, but I've been better for 1 1/2 months and still nothing. Just remember that men are different species. I'm ready to take the baby and leave.

MarkRealEstateConsultant

I'd say this man is a different, or he's going outside the relationship on you.

Talk with him - I suspect there's more than a lack of interest in sex going on. And again, other than the sexual relationship issue - Is he worth keeping? That's a decision you need to make and please remember you're making for your baby and you now.