Closing up?

Missing_thoughts · #1 Jul 30, 2007, 11:18 AM

Okay me and my bf have been having sex for a while now, but it seems like every single time we do I close up way to fast even with out an orgasim. I mean we can forplay for hours on end but as soon as we have sex I close. It pisses us both off very badly, its not like its my fault though. I want to have sex longer but "it" just wont let me. This has never happend with me and any other guys before, why him? If you have any advice PLEASE tell me

GlindaofOz · Jul 30, 2007, 11:19 AM

I don't understand, what is "closing up"?

Missing_thoughts · Jul 30, 2007, 11:22 AM

see I have never heard that term until I went out with him. He says it just closes, like its done, no more. Sucks . But its never happend with any other guy before, so I dont know whats going on

GlindaofOz · Jul 30, 2007, 11:26 AM

What closes? You need to explain this if you want help. If you are having sex you should be able to use the appropriate names for body parts.

Missing_thoughts · Jul 30, 2007, 11:28 AM

oh sorry my vagina just closes as he puts it. which doesnt really make sense to me because he can still finger me put he said that he cant fit his penis in after a while

Kattalover · Jul 30, 2007, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Missing_thoughts

He says it just closes, like its done, no more.

I am not sure what he's talking about. Is he trying to penetrate you but can't for some reason? Maybe because he's not hard enough? Or are you tensing up? Is there any pain?

Your vaginal opening is large enough for a baby. Unless you're suffering from vaginism (Vaginismus) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, I can't imagine why you shouldn't be able to have intercourse.

GlindaofOz · Jul 30, 2007, 11:29 AM

Okay, that is stupid and completely not true.

How old are you and how old is he?

Kattalover · Jul 30, 2007, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Missing_thoughts

oh sorry my vagina just closes as he puts it. which doesnt really make sense to me because he can still finger me put he said that he cant fit his penis in after a while

How old are you two?

Again, your vagina is large enough to allow a baby to pass through. It will definitely stretch enough to admit a penis!

Missing_thoughts · Jul 30, 2007, 11:35 AM

We are both 19. I know and thats why it doesnt make sense to me. After he pulls out once he says he cant put it back in. I dont think I was tense and yes he was hard. Yea actuly it was really weird I did feel pain, like almost losing my virginity again. is that bad

GlindaofOz · Jul 30, 2007, 11:37 AM

Your boyfriend needs an anatomy lesson. It is impossible for your vagina to collapse in the middle of sex. Maybe you just get tight again.

Again your vagina is not closing up.

Whenever it happens take a break and maybe wait like a half hour before having sex again. Maybe your vaginal muscles are tensing and you just don't realize it.



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