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Oh I KNOW what you mean! A man sleeps with like 10 girls in the same week and his buddies call him a hero. A girl does the same thing, she's the biggest whore ever! It's all got to do with the fact that eventhough women seem to have equal rights, we clearly don't. We can vote and we can wear pants and we can speak our mind, but we are still being controled by what men see fit. I Hate It So Much.
The double standard is alive and well in the world!
All you can do is change how YOU react to it. If you don't like it, the next time you hear a guy bragging, or a girl being put down, then SPEAK UP against it!
They may think they're "The Man", but we know better. To me, a guy that sleeps with everything that walks is not "The Man", he is "A Pig", plain and simple.
Why is it that if a girl sleeps with a couple guys, she is labeled a whore or a slut but if a guy does it, he is "The Man"? I hate people!!!!
Well, its just the same when it's opposite. When a guy looks at another guy, who's got girls in and out of the bed like clockworks, he's considered "the man" to the fellow guy's point-of-view. But to us girls, he is labeled " a player", and we HATE players. And when a guy looks at a girl who sleeps with a lot of guys, she isn't considered a slut or whore to them--they all think she's darn sexy, and are wishing that they get to sleep with her next. But to girls, that person is a "slut" or "whore" and the guy is a "player". but to guys, the girl is "sexy" and "dirty(but to them, in a good way)" and the guy is "the man". So guys and girls have different point of views on what to call who. Because girls are normally look at sex more maturally, when they are looking at others, but guys, look at it as "well, i'd love to have her in my bed" and they agree with the other male who's "the man" and having sex with her. It's a sad fact that all guys are the same in that way, but its true, and you just have to accept that at the end of the day, a guy's just a guy.
I ask the same question all the time. It is even that way when ur a teen living at home.... The boy can go out and have girlfriends... but the girl cant do anything and it isnt fare. I say treat everyone the same either they both go out or no one does. Unless there is a big age diffrence. other than that they should have equal opputunities. Have u noticed it is that way in the work place, men make more money than woman, double standard and it is wrong. as for the whore and slut part of it well who are we to judge anyway. No one is better than anyone else.
I really do not believe in sluts or whores. I think it is just women that are letting men use them , hoping for them to love them. I really think it is so sad. Now men on the other hand I believe are being whores and sluts. I know That is double standard. But That is how I feel. I guess I need to work on that.