hi im 20 years old and i have been having sex for about 2 yaers. i have this little problem though i cant seem to orgasim, the only way i can is to finger myself wile having sex, this works but id really like to have one by not fingering myself. my boy friend has tried and there is nothing wrong with his sex its great. Is there somthing wrong with me i just want to experence it... WHAT DO I DO??

smoothy

If he knew what he was doing he could get you off....assuming you are relaxed and comfortable enough to be receptive. Give it time and give him some guidance to what it takes. And be patient.

Kattalover

Don't feel bad! The majority of women cannot reach orgasm from vaginal penetration alone but need direct stimulation of the clitoris in order to reach climax. Since the clitoris is located outside the vaginal opening, it doesn't get stimulated much during intercourse.

Try different positions and find out which one brings the most stimulation (woman on top works well for most of us). The most important thing to remember is that you cannot force it. The more you want that orgasm, the more it will elude you. Relax, play with your partner, and concentrate on giving each other pleasure.