I have been married for almost 9 months and both my husband and I waited for marriage for sex. I have still not been able to orgasm. I feel like maybe I dont have the patience in bed to make it happen? Or maybe just both of us being inexperienced? I dont know...regardless my lack of drive is taking its toll on our marriage and we are both frustrated with the situation in our own ways. I stuggle with the intensity of clitoral stimulation with fingers...Its lame i know! I just end up lauging at my own reaction to it and moving on. Also, oral sex doesnt really seem to do anything for me. I recently came off an anti-depressant about 2 or 3 weeks ago that my Dr. said may be affecting me. Any ideas or suggestions? oh...and I know I'm kind of a prude...but masterbation is out
