...is this for real? you've known the girl for 8 months, and you've been "chatting ever since." what does that mean? how well do you really know this person?
i'm assuming you're very young. (maybe too young to be posting here?) i find it very hard to believe that you have such a big problem with the fact that this guy made a move on her (if it was actually only two kisses on her neck) that your manly parts have been utterly traumatized. shouln't you be able to completely trust the person you're supposed to marry? if you don't trust her, then why are you rushing into a permanent commitment with her? is your real problem with the situation the fact that she went to the movies with him (and other people), or is it the fact that *he* made a move? she even decided to tell you about it. she didn't have to, you know. have you considered the possibility that you're completely overreacting about this? you're talking as if this little incident has virtually crushed you emotionally, physically, as a man... everything looks overboard to me.
if you think you need viagra, schedule an appointment with your doctor and wait for him to laugh in your face, especially if you're as young as i think you are, and especially if he hears the reason for it. no, i don't think you're going to find a prescription very easily, but what do i know.
without knowing anything about you other than what i've gotten from your post, i think you're still much too young and immature to be jumping into something so adult, serious and permanent. sorry if this has come off as a bit harsh; that's just my opinion.
EDIT: your post from one week ago says that you've known each other for 6 months and that you're getting married in 3. would you care to explain these inconsistencies?
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