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Old Feb 2, 2007, 06:30 PM
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My girlfriend is a virgin

Alright so here is the problem. I know what I have to do and everything, but I have a question about my girlfriend beinga virgin.

1.Is it garenteed she will bleed?
2.Is it garenteed for it to hurt her?
3.If so how long will the pain or bleeding last?

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Old Feb 2, 2007, 06:46 PM   #2  
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Most girls don't bleed. Depending on the postion it may hurt so don't go with alot of force. Missionary hurts the least. So if shes ready to lose it to you, make her feel comfturable.
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1.Is it garenteed she will bleed? It is not guaranteed that she will bleed
2.Is it garenteed for it to hurt her? It is not guaranteed that she will hurt
3.If so how long will the pain or bleeding last? If she does bleed it should be a very small amount, but could be enough to make a mess on the bed so be prepared. If she does hurt is will be more of a sting but could be bad enough that she will not enjoy the sex and might even want you to stop. If she does not bleed and does not hurt that does not mean that she is not a virgin.
Before you and she have sex make sure you know all of the possible outcomes of having sex, first there is the chance of her becoming pregnant, nothing that you use to prevent it is 100% a sure thing. Another possibility it that you two having sex could cause you to break up. I don't know why but sometimes it puts a roadblock up between a couple that they can never overcome.
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Protection is very important.
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It isn't guaranteed she'll bleed, but if this is a problem for you, you might have second thoughts about it. Is it what she wants? And if so, I'd suggest you being on top. And go nice and slow. When and if she bleeds, it will and should be minor. I don't believe it will hurt her if she's been fingered before, it should actually be easy for her. If she's had no previous sexual stimulation, there may be some discomfort, but don't go too fast, or it might come as a surprise to her. There is a thin layer of skin, called the hymen, over most girls' vaginas, and when that's broken, that's where the bleeding comes from. Not all girls bleed, because they could've had this broken prior to the two of you having sex. (it can be broken during normal activites too, other than sex, such as dancing or masturbating, for a few examples.) Not all girls bleed, so don't assume she's not a virgin if she doesn't. It's normal for her to bleed and have some discomfort, it's also normal for her to have just one of them, or niether of them. Good Luck on this, and may I suggest doing it on a towel ? ;-)
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Thanks a lot for your help. Ya this is what she wants. I'd be happy just to be with her and cuddle and stuff, but she came at off the blue one day and asked if I would have sex with her. I said yes but nothing has happened yet. We are just waiting for the right time.
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Well, whenever that time may be, I hope everything goes smoothly. :-)
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