Can i get something straight?

Grayfox · #1 Aug 22, 2006, 12:03 AM

Alright, i have heard a few things, if anyone can clarify it would be most appreciated. Is one considered to still be a virgin as long as they have not had an orgasm as the result of penetration, or is any sexual activity resulting in an orgasm considered sex and therefore= loss of virginity? Thanks!

Krs · Aug 22, 2006, 01:05 AM

You are still a virgin when you have not yet experienced full intercourse.

If you still havnt had full intercourse but experienced an orgasm thorugh oral sex then in my eyes you are still a virgin.

hope this helps.

Kadehadaire · Aug 22, 2006, 05:50 AM

If you have been penetrated, you are not a virgin.

J_9 · Aug 22, 2006, 06:09 AM

To be considered a virgin your hymen must still be in place. Breaking of the hymen is a result of penetration.

However, in my opinion, a virgin is someone who has not experienced ANY form of sex.

But physiologically you are a virgin if penetration has not occurred.

Grayfox · Aug 22, 2006, 08:05 AM

So say that penetration has occured, but neither had an orgasm as a result, you would no longer be a virgin?

aqua@home · Aug 22, 2006, 08:12 AM

No, if there is penetration, you are no longer a virgin. Having or not having an orgasm doesn't make a difference.

J_9 · Aug 22, 2006, 08:19 AM

Orgasm has nothing to do with virginity. Penetration is what causes one to lose their virginity.

Also, please be sure you know that you CAN get pregnant the first time!!!

Grayfox · Aug 22, 2006, 09:09 AM

lol, dont worry i know about getting pregnant the first time. I was only curious as to the technicalities of virginity. So this is what i've gathered, you are a virgin if you have not penetrated or been penetrated vaginally with or by the male penis. Correct? or does penetration with anothers fingers count/ anal penetration by the penis? OR all sexual acts with another being...?

J_9 · Aug 22, 2006, 10:07 AM

In my opinion any sexual act results in sexual knowledge.

Remember we had a very famous person that believed that oral sex was not sex.

Physiologically virginity is determined by the breaking of the hymen. However, if people perform sexual acts on one another they would no longer be considered pure.

Being Pure means that no one has touched your private parts in any way shape or form.

Morally (my morals of course) one would not be a virgin by using fingers, anal penetration, or any other form of sex acts.

Grayfox · Aug 22, 2006, 10:29 AM

Ok, thats what i thought, thanks alot J 9, you have been extremely helpful.



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