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Jul 19, 2007, 01:30 PM
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My boyfriend watches transexual porn
Hi...
I just found out today that my boyfriend likes tranny porn. I just moved in with him last month and love him very much. Initially I was kind of surprised that he liked watching men having sex... but overall it did not gross me out or anything. BUT it seems my sex drive is much higher than his. He comes home on his lunch most days and watches porn and then he could go a week without initiating sex with me, that part really hurts my feelings. He was single for a year before I met him so I'm sure he just got into a daily lunchtime maturbating routine, but now that we've been together for a while you would think he would rather have "real sex" I literally have to ask him to have sex with me sometimes. He is great in bed and definitely likes girls. But the Tranny sex thing kind of irks me, and the lack of him initiating sex with me bothers me a lot... he is on anti depressants for I just thought he had a low sex drive because of the meds, but not if he is watching porn everyday.
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Jul 19, 2007, 05:13 PM
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Hmmm same thing when my husband was on Paxil, he didn't want sex too much but watched porn everyday... I wouldn't worry about the tranny porn, it could be a fantasy thing like some women like to watch lesbian sex as a fantasy but they aren't gay... Good luck :)
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Jul 19, 2007, 10:33 PM
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That's creepy
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Jul 21, 2007, 12:54 PM
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Well, try to talk it over with him. Tell him that him watching porn (tranny at that) but not even attempting to initiate sex with you, is upsetting you and you'd like it more, than when YOU ask for it. Tell him that you'd love to be surprised one day, by him just taking you to the bed room on his own and having a night full exploring beneath the sheets. =]
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Jul 22, 2007, 07:41 AM
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He has an addiction, just like drugs, drinking or smoking, and it will and is already effecting your sex life.
Normal people do not come home for lunch and watch porn, they actually have lunch, maybe talk, and then go back to work.
And since he is watching homosexual porn, it would appear he may have some desires in that direction also, he has not told you about yet.
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Jul 22, 2007, 10:33 PM
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He's probably bi
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Jul 23, 2007, 05:51 AM
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Don't know what to say... if he isn't so gung ho to initiate sex with you maybe its more than just morbid curiosity with well hung "Chicks".
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Jul 24, 2007, 10:35 PM
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I personally would have a big problem with my husband watching two men get it on. Like u was told earlier maybe he is bi. Talk to him about this. If he won't talk what else are u to do. This is a hard one girl. Maybe he has not came to the point that he wants to realize he is bi. When he comes home for lunch. Have something on sexy and see what he does. Try new things with him.
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Jul 25, 2007, 12:08 AM
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Well what can I say, he is a guy. Firstly, find one day suitable(night) and talk to him face to face alone. If he rejects you then you just need to force him. Ask him him did he really loves you. If he say yes, try convince him to throw all the gay porn of his. If he won't do that, perhaps you just need to use your body, face, and look to make him high about you and finally have sex with him. Since he love wathing gay porn, this means he is about to become one them if you just let him continue. Take him back before the gay porn take him away from you!
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Aug 27, 2007, 08:07 PM
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You know, I wouldn't necessarily say that he's bi just because he watches gay porn. Is that the only porn he watches? I may be an odd case, and I'm female, but I've watched lesbian porn and I know for a fact that I'm not bi (had many female friends and opportunities). Just to play the devil's advocate- he could be bi, you should ask him.
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Mar 14, 2008, 05:15 AM
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I have the same problem :( but my boyfriend he like to watches tranvestites porn all shemales!
When I asked him he only said he doesn't .and yes he always masturbated when I not home most everyday.that very upsetting me.I think he has an addiction. But thr things I can think maybe it better than he go out and try in real.
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Mar 14, 2008, 08:53 AM
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 Originally Posted by kate31
I have the same problem :( but my boyfriend he like to watches tranvestites porn all shemales!
when i asked him he only said he doesn't .and yes he always masturbated when i not home most everyday.that very upsetting me.i think he has an addiction. but thr things i can think maybe it better than he go out and try in real.
I never understood as a guy, why a guy would choose to beat his meat when he has a willing partner at home...
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Aug 22, 2009, 01:45 PM
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Hey, um... just figured I'd throw this out there...
Watching tranny porn isn't exactly the same thing, as watching straight up, hard core gay porn.
Yes, they both do involve a penis. But presenation does count for something.
And also, seconding this... just because he likes tranny porn, doesn't mean he's going to go out and start ing guys.
(Although, he may secretly be into the whole strap on thing. Don't know - depends how kinky you are, really.)
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Aug 22, 2009, 01:52 PM
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This thread is TWO YEARS OLD.
Closed.
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