I'm trying to clear my head about some things that are bothering me. First of all, my fiancé and I have a VERY loving and wholesome relationship. However, I am bothered by some things. First, he has a liking for pornography and hentai that unsettles me. It makes me feel unattractive when he masturbates to porn, because I can do the same for him. We also haven't been having sex NEARLY as often as we have in the past. Is it because he thinks I'm unattractive and wants me to "measure up" to the "beautiful" women in the porn he looks at? I'm just worried because his sex drive seems unusually low for a 22 year old. He always claims he's tired, yet doesn't have a job and doesn't do much during the day. We used to have sex every night, but now I'm lucky to get it 3 times a week. Please send advice!