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Old Feb 4, 2008, 08:13 PM
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How do you feel about circumcision?

Circumcision has been practiced for a very long time. It has been said to meet certain religious requirements and to prevent disease. It is an accepted thing. It is preferred by mothers that I have met because it makes it easier to keep the baby's penis clean.

Personally, as a woman, I find that uncircumcised penises feel better during sex. I read that the foreskin is there not only to protect the penis, but is the most sensitive skin on it.

I know there are ongoing studies to ascertain if the foreskin harbors germs and carcinogens, and disease control is a vital concern to many. Does that make it OK to remove an extremely sensitive (in more than one way) body part without the boy's permission?

I have not met any men who were circumcised as adults. So, is there a difference in before and after sensitivity for men? I heard that adult circumcision is extremely painful. Doing it to a baby wouldn't be all that different would it? I would not have someone else's ears pierced without their mature permission and total willingness. Is this different?
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Old Feb 4, 2008, 08:52 PM   #2  
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I do know that there are no medical health advantages to having the penis circumsized. i would guess that the uncircumsized penis is better during sex because that is the natural way the penis is, so it's supposed to feel better to make people want to have sex and reproduce more. Anyways, there are really no advantages other than the "accepted" look of the penis in today's society.
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I know that some doctors that have to perform Circumcisions hate doing it because the little boys scream. I accidentally knicked my 10 month old daughter's finger while trying to clip her nails and she screamed for that. Personally, I feel like I've been robbed of a more sexual pleasure because of what my parents and medical science believed back in the day. It is also a sensitive subject when everyone is up in arms about female circumcisions practiced throughout the world, but noone says anything about baby boys in this country...

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rusalka disagrees: Female circumcision is a totally different thing, it is a complete removal of all organs that help the woman enjoy sex, and thy do it to deprive women of enjoying intercourse to prevent adultery - not because of health concerns like in males
bushg agrees: You have the right to your on opinion on something that happened to you. I for one think it is a painful uncessary procedure.
Xrayman disagrees: sorry-BOTH circumcisions (boys and girls and can end up removing pleasure for both sexes and are done WITHOUT consent.
Greg Quinn agrees: You have a right to your opinion. It did not deserve reds, GRRR people!!
smoothy disagrees: Female circumsision is NOT the same thing by any means you look at it. Nor are they done for the same reason. I'm circusized, happy I am and have plenty of feeling.
Love-Life agrees: Its his own personal opinon. If he doesn't like circumsision because he knows what its like firsthand, let him.
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Female circumcision is a different concept in that it is traditionally the total removal of the vulva (external genitals) including the clitoris (female penis.)
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I have a worry about how a young boy will develop psychologically if not circumcised if his mother(or father) is cleaning his penis, or examining the penis to see if it is clean.......that seems to be a charged situation! A mom would have to check under the foreskin to see if all the smegma is gone until the kid if fairly old, to just before puberty, I would think considering how badly most boys take care of details.

I remember talking to a guy who fell off his garage roof when he was about 12, and he broke his arms. His mother took care of him urinating and defecating...yuckers!....he turned out VERY WARPED.

As for female "circumcision" it is nothing of the sort. It is simply destroying the clitoris so the woman has no clitoral sexual stimulation, and it done for barbaric repressive social and cultural reasons.

Just my opinion....perhaps I have some things to learn about how uncircumcised boys' genitals are cleaned by their mommies.
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I think most "minute men" are uncircumcised.....


Me I'm cut and trust me...I get one hell of a lot of satisfaction.


As to female "Circumcision" its mutilation pure and simple. They do it to keep the woman from getting any satisfaction because they are so insecure.

Personally I would almost equate it to lopping off the head of the wiener. And what they should do to any guy that tries to force his daughter or wife to have it done.

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That's what I would think too, smoothy!
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At what point does religious groups incorporate the barbarick act of taking a small boys penis and cut off bits of it, then making that compulsary to be part of that religious group, there must have been some really sick, religious leaders back then (and now). My view is, if its not broken, dont try to fix it.....your sincerely Rabi 2personal

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The only reason the practice of circumcision was so popular was because of the lack of running water, people could not bathe daily, more like weekly or bi-weekly so the risk of infection was very great. Nowadays most people have indoor showers and can shower everyday, the risk of infection to a uncircumcised penis is very small. I have a nine year old son, he is not circumcised and we have never had any problems. And the thought that you have to clean it for him until adolescence is totally absurd, the foreskin isn't even retractable until around the age of 4 or 5, still young enough for mommy or daddy to give him a bath, that's when you start teaching him how to clean himself, my 9 year old has been cleaning under his foreskin since he was 7.

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simoneaugie agrees: Good. I have only had girls, thanks for the insight.
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How do you know he is cleaning under it?

Listen, I am generally against circumcision, but this one point makes me wonder.

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