Hi...
New poster but serious question. Well.. yeah, anyway. My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for a few years. Whenever we met up with each other, we never stopped having sex. We did it all the time. Whenever I didn't feel like it, he would try and persuade me by saying that he showed his affection and emotion through sex. If felt that if it was that important to him, we should do it.
Now we're living together and since he moved in, he's been wanting to have sex less and less. First it was three times a week. Then once a week. Then once every two weeks. Now it's once a month and the sex only lasts for a few minutes. He seems fine with this. We've talked and argued and nearly broken up about it. I'm very unhappy. I've asked if it's because I'm too fat or if it's because he regrets moving here. Or if it's because of some issue he's never discussed before. He just says it's because he had to go so long without having regular sex that it's just not imporatant anymore. Which seems like a cop out to me, but now when I bring it up, he gets insulted and hurt. I'm at my wits end. He won't touch me, he won't be intimate. He says he loves me. I'm not seeing it.
I don't know what to do.