Hi, I've looked up suggestions to this before and I just haven't been able to come up with a solution that works. My boyfriend looks at porn... not often (at least not that I know of) and it drives me crazy. I've tried to watch it with him, and sometimes I don't mind. But even me watching it with him doesn't stop him from watching it or looking at it on his own. We live together but I work during the day and every time I come home and use the computer, he has erased the history on it (I'm not necessarily snooping, sometimes I use the history function to go to old pages I want to look at). I've told him plenty of times that it drives me crazy that he looks at porn and he says that he doesn't, flat out denies it, even when I've started to type in a website in the browser and porn sites come up he'll say that he hasn't looked at it. I hate the lying (even though he does it so that I don't get mad at him) and I hate feeling so insecure about myself. I'm skinny and not very well endowed so I know that I don't compare at all to those girls... it makes me feel so inadequate and makes me not want to have sex because I feel as if he'd rather be with those girls than with me. What should I do? I've tried watching it with him and while that does spice up our sex life, it doesn't stop him from looking at it on his own. Why would he need to do this? Please help me, it's really upsetting me...