My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me at all anymore. I am very sexual, and I am soooooo into him. I'm in my early twenties, he's about a decade older than me. We've been & lived together for a while. Even when we did have sex, he was always uncomfortable with it. He has some personal issues and admits to that. He does love me. But when he tells me he's still attracted to me, I don't believe him. I feel guilty that I want to break up only because of sex. Is 3 months long enough for me to give up? He wants me to be patient but he isn't doing much to change things. I don't think I can do this anymore, but I do love him. I'm constantly turned on, with always huge sexual tension. I'm so into him and so frustrated. I feel ashamed that my libido is so out of control... I've tried talking, it ends into a fight. He's currently seeing a therapist, but it's not doing much. I've tried a few things to spice things up, but he ignores me. It's just a big taboo at this point. I'm willing to do what it takes, but I feel like I'm going nuts, and I honestly don't think he'll ever "fix" his desire for me. How long should I go without having sex? Please help - any advice is welcome. Thx!