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Asked Oct 25, 2006, 12:57 PM — 21 Answers
So here is the deal... I'm 24 years old...my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years...he is my first real boyfriend and he was also the first person I ever had sex with... It used to be great, really amazing but for a couple of months now we have been barely having sex at all... He wanted to have a threesome and I kind of hooked up with a girl in front ofhim , thiking it will make him be more attracted to me....after that hapeed we only had sex once and its been like a month since that happened....I know I'm not an ugly girl, even though I might be 10 pounds overweight...people still find me attractive... I just feel disgusting and not attractive at all I any way.. I cry constantly because I get so frustrated every time I try to initiate sex with him and he rejects me..... He says it isn't me .. That he just needs some time and that he loves me....I don't even know what to believe anymore... Because I feel like .... I thought if someone loves you ,a way of showing that love is through sex....I don't know.....should I wait ?... Should I just break up with him?..... Help....
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Aug 29, 2007, 06:57 AM
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so here is the deal... I'm 24 years old...my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years...he is my first real boyfriend and he was also the first person I ever had sex with... It used to be great, really amazing but for a couple of months now we have been barely having sex at all... He wanted to have a threesome and I kind of hooked up with a girl in front ofhim , thiking it will make him be more attracted to me....after that hapeed we only had sex once and its been like a month since that happened....I know I'm not an ugly girl, even though I might be 10 pounds overweight...people still find me attractive... I just feel disgusting and not attractive at all I any way.. I cry constantly because I get so frustrated every time I try to initiate sex with him and he rejects me..... He says it isn't me .. That he just needs some time and that he loves me....I don't even know what to believe anymore... Because I feel like .... I thought if someone loves you ,a way of showing that love is through sex....I don't know.....should I wait ?... Should I just break up with him?..... Help....
Break up with him! Do you have a myspace?
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Aug 29, 2007, 08:10 PM
All relationships go through their ups and downs in the sex department. Talk to him about..but don't nag him. Usually, there's just stuff going on in their head they need to work out themselves. Sometimes if you make yourself unavailable, you'll find he'll start chasing you for it.
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