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Learning about what makes each other feel good is the best way to go. Talk to him and see what is on his mind, stress and daily life takes a toll on people.
The fact he isn't good is im sure the reason he doesn't want it. So you have to teach him how to be good. Take it slow and let him watch you so he knows how foreplay can excite you, he can orally excite you and he doesn't have to worry about his size of how long he can last.
no i dn't want to make hi jealous thats kinda to childish i have just had a son and im thinking maybe he doesn't like my body maybe i cn't turn him on, he is very good at oral but never wants to do it
Good for you trying to make him Jealous is a big mistake.
Im sure its not the fact you had a baby because if he Loves you he would see that sexy Lady you are no matter what you look like. He has a problem so lets see if we can find it and fix it.
Medications is the first question... Many Many Med's will take away your sex drive. If he is on any type of meds check it out. Make sure you not only check that med but if he takes more then one they combination could be the problem.
Stress... Stress can zap a Man's sex drive so fast it will make your head spin.
Boredom... If your Love making has become the same thing time after time then it needs to be spiced up so the excitement is back. If this is the answer then let me know and we can work on some ways to bring back that spark.
He has TWO strikes against him from the git go - no good and not interested. You do know that you AIN'T gonna change him. Let me say that again, YOU AIN'T GONNA CHANGE HIM.
If he is not any mdications for stress or depression, maybe he should consider getting a complete physical. Having a no interest approach to sex is not normal. Unless he is just not into women. I do not know. But start by getting him to the doctor for a thorough health exam, explaining the signs of what is not going on between the two of you.
If that approach does not work, then consider counseling. Maybe he never saw sex as that as important and he feels you are pushing him. If he feels that he will not satisfy you, then he will not achieve what you desire. Whatever you do, do not write him off until you have considered all the options.
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