My boyfriend and I have been togther for 10 years. We used to have a great sex life. I am very adventerous in the bedroom and he seemed to love it. His imagination isn't as open as mine, but we always had great sex. For the past 4 or 5 months our sex life has just died. Even though we have had sex, I haven't had an orgasm in that entire time. He can't manage to last long enough or even get hard at times. If I decide to help him have an orgasm by performing oral sex or just a simple hand job he is able to stay hard the entire time. I just don't get it. What's going on here?