My boyfiend went soft during sex WHY?

wild_girl · #1 Jul 12, 2007, 11:42 PM

We have been tiogether 3 years and have sex evryday. it is great. I love it!!
BUT the last 2 nights in a row, he has went soft in the middle!! I freaked!!
He says it is because he is stressed, cause he DOES have alot on his plate right now..he also says it's because he was playing his videogame all day and cant focus properly and smoked too much weed, is this true?
WHY DO GUYS GO SOFT!!?!??!

XenoSapien · Jul 13, 2007, 04:09 AM

Stress really does have a lot to do with it. Anything new happen the day before the two nights in a row happen that could be affecting his thoughts?

XenoSapien

iAMfromHuntersBar · Jul 13, 2007, 05:05 AM

I thought your boyfriend was in jail for 2 years?

If not, it could be all the pressure you're putting him under from your jealousy, maybe he's worried about something you've said to him in a jealous moment.

smoothy · Jul 13, 2007, 05:10 AM

I agree, stress, being overly tired or just bad luck. It happens to all of us at one time or other. Some more than others.

alkalineangel · Jul 13, 2007, 12:29 PM

I dont understand this...
Here you claim he is in jail and has been for two years.

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...le-109172.html

and here
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...set-76914.html

and yet you still are able to have sex with him every night?.. you ask about parole in this thread:
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/crimina...da-109480.html

so he cant be out on that...

Im just curious because all of the threads you are posting dont make sense, and I dont like people coming in here and making up things. it takes away from other people who really do need help. You seem to have a lot of problems judging by some of your posts, and some just aren't that believable...

Shaunta · Jul 13, 2007, 01:37 PM

Well Is He Or Isnt He In Jail?? I Think Your On Here Posting Just To Be Posting To See How Many Responses You Could Get Back From Your One Question... Just Yesterdeay You Said "hey My Boyfriend Is In Jail For Two Years Also" So Is Your Boyfriend Really In Jail???? Are You Cheating On Him??? Make Up Your Mind!!!!!!!!

J_9 · Jul 13, 2007, 01:43 PM

Here ya go, is she or is she not an internet troll?

Quote:

In Internet terminology, a troll is someone who intentionally posts derogatory or otherwise inflammatory messages about sensitive topics in an established online community such as an online discussion forum to bait users into responding.[1] They may also plant images and data on networks that others may find disturbing (usually indirectly relating to the individual in person)[citation needed] in order to cause confrontation.

XenoSapien · Jul 13, 2007, 02:56 PM

I'd say she is a troll. She has a lot of odd posts on here.

XenoSapien

michealb · Jul 13, 2007, 03:07 PM

For the OP:
Pot does odd things to your sex drive and abilities. If he smoked a lot of pot he can go soft in the middle tell him not to bake his brain so much and he will be fine.

For everyone else:
Maybe she has many boyfriends and this is the one that plays video games and smokes pot all day not the one in jail. Either way she sounds like she dates some real winners and I look forward to supporting her welfare babies in the future.

StoddartD · Jul 13, 2007, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by wild_girl

We have been tiogether 3 years and have sex evryday. it is great. I love it!!
BUT the last 2 nights in a row, he has went soft in the middle!! I freaked!!
He says it is because he is stressed, cause he DOES have alot on his plate right now..he also says it's because he was playing his videogame all day and cant focus properly and smoked too much weed, is this true?
WHY DO GUYS GO SOFT!!?!??!

obviously ... well i think he....... you said youve been together for three years. maybe hes getting bored.