What are your thoughts on booty calls?? Bad?? Should I avoid them?? Should I take advantage of them??

Cat1864

Starting with a couple of definitions:

Booty Call: having sex with someone you are not in a relationship with just for sexual release. Neither person has any hold on the other person. In a lot of cases that includes friendship.

Friends with benefits: friends who are not in a romantic or committed relationship (with each other or others) having sex together for the sake of having sex.

With the number of incurable sexually transmitted diseases around and that there is a chance (however small) of a child being created every time a woman has sex (unless her ovaries have been fully removed or it's a lesbian relationship), I do not believe in sex for entertainment between people who are not committed to each other. Unless there is that commitment, you can't be sure what STDs the other person may be bringing to the bed. You also should think ahead to what happens if the unwanted occurs and you get pregnant.

slapshot_oi

If you get your kicks then do it. Just work on those night moves.

The worst part about it all is when it stops.

smoothy

If you like taking a chance of contracting Herpes, AIDS, (neither has a cure) or any number of other STD's, Or have a child from someone you can't easily know for sure which, then buy all means, have as many booty calls as you want.

proud2bchilean

very helpful !!! thnx a lot !!

HotPotato2009

Wow! It is true that someone always gets attached and wants more than what the other wants. Im against Booty Calls. I dont think its cool. Of course if you are single and that other person is single (that you want the booty call from) i guess its fine.