ok hey all! First off.....Everytime after me and my boyfriend has sex, I get up to go use the restroom, and when I whip I'm bleeding! Not heavly, but a faded red coloring! This happends everytime we have sex! What is this caused by, and is it ok that I bleed?

fredg

HI,
Personally, I would go see a doctor; find out why you are bleeding.
Then, I would think about you and your boyfriend having sex. Are you ready to be a Mom yet?
40% of all girls in the US are pregnant before they are 20 yrs old. That's 4 out of every 10 girls!
No contraceptives, like condoms, pills, foam, etc, are 100% effective against becoming pregnant.
Will you be one of the 4 girls who get pregnant?
I do wish you the best, and good luck! but, I would see a doctor.

Fr_Chuck

You should have this checked by a medical professional. Also remember sex leads to babies. So look in the mirror and practice telling mom and dad that you are going to have a baby.

If you are on the "pill, patch" also always use a condom if you have to have sex. Sexual transmitted diease is everywhere and sadly guys will promise you everything but normally don't do good on the follow though.

One time of having sex with someone who is infected ( and they may have only had sex once with someone else infected) is all it takes.
People with infections don't look sick, can't tell by looking at them.

Jesushelper76

Bleeding after intercourse. There may be several reasons for this. Rough hard sex. Infections of the bladder. Tears of the Vagina. Sexually transmitted diseases and other kinds of infections. The only way to figure out what is going on is to get checked out by a professional to pin point the cause. It could be just as simple as your to dry in that area and might need lubrication.

Joe

letmeno

This does not happen to me often but it has a time or two. The blood vessels around the cervix are very delicate. Deep penetration, rough sex will do it. But always check with your Doc.

PrettyLady

I agree with all of you, especially Jesushelper76. UtellMe256, it's not normal to bleed every time you have sex. you probably have a cut or tear due to the lack of lubrication. Also, vaginal bleeding can be a sign of a sexually transmitted disease. You should always practice safe sex, you don't want to jeopardize your health. I really think that you and your partner should take a break from your sexual activity until your healed. You should go get examined by a doctor to see what's causing the bleeding.

c7c7

If it hurts to pee, like a slight or extreme burning sensation, then it is some kind of bladder infection, not necessarily a sexually transmitted disease.

At least I knew it was a bladder infection, since I know my boyfriend's sexual history.

SoulMate05

Hun dont let all these experts make you scared because if I read half that stuff they wrote to you I would be crying. I want through the same situation you did...Its not AN STD!!!!! Well probably not...its like a 2 in a million chance that it could be that...you guys might be having really rough sex that has caused you to bleed...like he tore your skin on the outside...you should go to the doctor though if its happening everytime you have sex because it might be a bladder infection...and its not that bad of one but having sex is making the symptoms come out...and you should have sex if you want to its your choice...be protected though...cause you dont want an std! but I doubt thats why your bleeding is an std! its highly unlikley! good luck hun!

polar

hi,have a cervical smear also you could have a small erosion on cervix it needs to be cauterized to stop the bleeding after intercourse

AbL6669

Yes go to the Doctor but i do have one question. Bleeding after sex could be caused by the membranes not being lubricated enough. Find a lubrication that you can use and try that you may find that the lubrication will stop the rupturing of the vaginal walls and you will also enjoy the sex more without the worry.