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Does it really exist or is it an excuse for people to pursue their gay interest while not completely closing themself off to straights? what is it about. Most girls are bi" is it just an attention scam? I rarely hear of bi guys
Ok, what i meant is that most girls who say they are bi are girls and i think its for atencion
and so to bisexuality is just like a gray area that we make up?
It is far more acceptable for a woman to consider herself bisexual then it is for a man.
Bisexual men are often more gay, while bisexual women are often experimenting with their sexuality, besides the additional factor that bisexual women are attractive to straight men, it's a win-win for a bisexual female. A bisexual male on the other hand, would often find themselves rejected by straight women.
Bisexuality does exist. There are often gray areas with which people fall, it's not all black and white.
There are indeed people who claim they are bisexual just to get attention. Those are the people who are responsible for the idea that bisexuality isn't "real", and that bisexuals are all either in denial or attention-whores. Those are the people who need to be slapped.
quote: i rarely hear of bi guys
All I have to say to that: you need to get out more.
Men are less likely to admit to being bisexual because of the negative stereotypes associated with male homosexuality.
Male vs female bisexuality is so thick with double standards that it's virtually impossible for a guy to retain any dignity once he comes out.
The first thing people think of when they hear "bisexual girl" is more along the lines of hot cheerleaders making out and letting you watch, join in, or whip out your camera. The first thing people think of when they hear "bisexual man" is either that creepy emo kid from homeroom, or someone who will sneak up and rape you in the locker room if you drop the soap.
When a girl gets drunk and kisses another girl once on a dare or because she was bet $20, she is just having some fun. If she considers herself straight, people take her for her word. When a guy gets drunk and kisses another guy once on a dare or for $20, he is a latent homosexual. If he considers himself straight, people will consider him "in the closet" and try to out him at every opportunity.
So, it's kind of easy to see why men are more hesitant to admit to a "deviant" sexual lifestyle or to experimentation.
reference: approximately 3/4 of my friends or ex-boyfriends are gay/lesbian/bisexual.
Hmmmm, j_ely823 and lazylana88 seem to be sharing the same computer. One claims to be a 19 yr old clearly heterosexual (http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ve-373818.html) while the other seems to be either 19 or 21 with homosexual tendencies.
Being bisexual is not fake. Sometimes emotional needs are best met with the opposite sex and others are met with that of the same sex. While you can be physically attracted to the opposite sex, some people find that they have also had enjoyable homosexual experiences as well. It is possible to be emotionally and physically attracted to both sexes.
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