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rja_2009 · Feb 9, 2009, 08:59 PM

Ok this is a strange question but I'm looking to spice sex up a bit and I would like to know of some really exotic positions that will make sex really interesting. I'm not talking about like "Doggie style" but if it comes down to it if there's a trick I pull on my man to make him keep coming back for more, I'm down

hoightoider · Feb 9, 2009, 09:09 PM

If you need a "trick" to make him keep coming back for more, then, if I were you, I would start looking for another boyfriend.

simoneaugie · Feb 9, 2009, 09:19 PM

Some guys are really turned on by moisture, like doing it in a lake or in the shower. Jacuzzis, swimming pools and bathtubs tend to take lubrication away and cause pain, for women anyway.

There is a position called "asian cowgirl" that seems to be a hit in my experience. That's girl on top, facing the guy. The woman's knees are up by her shoulders while she slides up and down... Guys like that.

My favorite is what I call "backwards bark" but it has another name, can't remember. That one is girl on top with her back to the guy. Both of her hands are free to pleasure herself and the guy's hands are also free to explore. Try this with both of your legs in different positions until it feels just right for both.

Sexual excitement is largely a benefit of the interaction and separate excitement of both partners. Many men really like it when women do whatever needed to reach her own orgasm.

smoothy · Feb 10, 2009, 05:49 AM

Trick is finding what position does it for both him and you... Its not the same for everyone... Some like "Doggie"... I for one hate it with a passion... Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are my personal favorites... but body type and build will dictate what works and won't.

Choux · Feb 10, 2009, 11:28 AM

Good sex is about passion, the woman's passion.

That is what turns a man on the most... a woman who wants to eff him in the worst way. :D There is no substitute for passion.

Forget about being a good little girl... teach yourself to get in touch with your raw needs.

Best wishes, :)

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0rphan · Feb 10, 2009, 02:39 PM

I think it's not always the position but more the foreplay leading up to it.

You will then do what ever comes natural to both of you without a second thought of what position you both finally end up in.

mugger · Feb 10, 2009, 03:07 PM

Give the butterfly position a try.

chrissymarie · Feb 10, 2009, 03:35 PM

Girl on top, penis all the way inserted, the man grabs the girls hips and push and pulls her back and forth really fast.

That's my favorite

liz28 · Feb 10, 2009, 08:16 PM

Try the Kama Sutra Sexual Positions book, it helped my sex life a lot. Just be careful when trying some of the positions.

simoneaugie · Feb 11, 2009, 09:44 PM

Thanks Linnealand for the termonology. But I realize clarification is needed. The position I described has both partners lying down, pillows near or on one of the guy's shoulders. That is reverse cowgirl, but with the woman lying on the man's chest. This can create wonderful friction for the man while allowing more gentle access to the female sensitive parts. Does that have a specific name?

smoothy · Feb 12, 2009, 06:05 AM

REverse cowgirl has the man on his back.. woman verticle like she's sitting in a saddle only instead of facing him, she has her back towards him... Either one gives HER full control of all aspects which she can tailor to suit her personal tastes.

simoneaugie · Feb 12, 2009, 02:10 PM

Hmmm, backwards cowgirl is not a position I like then. The angle of penetration is more up and down, the clitoris is hanging out somewhere over the testicles, the hands and arms are needed for balance and movement.

So, I lie down. Then my arms and hands are free. An up and down movement with plenty of friction (for him) is possible with direct G-spot contact. Communication through body surfaces gives clear signs of the man's arousal, so stopping when necessary is possible, and fun for the woman...

smoothy · Feb 12, 2009, 05:19 PM

In cowgirl you aren't lying down facing him either... he is laying on his back, you are verticle on your knees above him... there is a variation whre you are crouching on the balls of your feet, but can't remember if that's called an Asian cowgirl or what its proper name is.