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my name is clay im 19 years old, almost 20, and I'm still a virgin, and I'm not a virgin by choice, I'm a virgin because I keep getting rejected, I have alopecia which means that I'm bald I have no eye brows, and I'm unattractive. My confidence is down to 0 and I dont know what to do, I'm a very shy person with low self esteem because of what happened to me in the past, and I need advice to regain my confidence.
Oh sweetie, I'm sorry that you feel so down about yourself. The truth is that not everyone can look past the outward appearance and see the goodness and kindness that lays beneath. You are still so young, and so are the people around you. It takes maturity to see a person for who they are. You will find someone, actually I'm sure that you will find many people who won't judge you based on appearance. And, I'm sure that you are not unattractive, just different, and some people fear different.
Get out of your shell, go out, meet people, let your wonderful personality shine through, you'll be surprised at what happens.
As for being a virgin at 19, there's nothing wrong with that, don't be in such a hurry to have sex. Trust me, having sex with someone you care about is the ultimate pleasure, sex just for sex is not that great.
Keep you head up, your shoulders squared, you'll be just fine.
Not to get your hopes up but you may have alopecia due to lack of vitamin B's, zinc, iron, and some other vitamins and minerals. You might want to read up on nutrition and remedies for alopecia but it may or may not help you.
There are many people your age that are still virgins and it is nothing to feel bad or 'wrong' about. I understand your wanting someone in your life though. I am sure eventually you will find somebody that can look past the 'material world' and love you for who you are.
Hey...............
Why ur in hurry for sex. You should proud to be virgin. I am 23 & hardcore virgin I dont feel like that.
Wat I belive is If you are virgin that means you are a kid:ANd that is the most important part coz.Childhood is like living in HEAVEN.......................
So live in Heaven,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,as long as you can buddy!
Enjoy the goodness of virginity.
Thanks!
I think you should get your hair styled by a good professional to reflect the styles worn by popular men who are losing their hair. Get suggestions for the amount of hair loss you suffer right now.
Then, get a pair of glasses like a studious but cool guy would have....or a classic pair of frames like tortoise tone.
Now, you look your best and you gotta go out into life and make a go of it with the ladies.
Say Hi to every girl you run into. In class, sit next to a few girls and start a conversation. Say HI! Go to the library and study, and take a break and say HI to people in the library lounge.
Have a speciality or two that you like to talk about.....whatever.
Ask one of your new friends to go out for a beer, or coffee, whatever.
Get out from behind your computer and socialize is what I'm saying.
Oh sweetie, I'm sorry that you feel so down about yourself. The truth is that not everyone can look past the outward appearance and see the goodness and kindness that lays beneath. You are still so young, and so are the people around you. It takes maturity to see a person for who they are. You will find someone, actually I'm sure that you will find many people who won't judge you based on appearance. And, I'm sure that you are not unattractive, just different, and some people fear different.
Get out of your shell, go out, meet people, let your wonderful personality shine through, you'll be surprised at what happens.
As for being a virgin at 19, there's nothing wrong with that, don't be in such a hurry to have sex. Trust me, having sex with someone you care about is the ultimate pleasure, sex just for sex is not that great.
Keep you head up, your shoulders squared, you'll be just fine.
Good luck.
I couldn't agree more. People really do fear what they do not know, and what is different. The real you (your soul) is beautiful and I am confident you will find someone special. That person will find you too.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with your virginity. Enjoy that special uniqueness, you will give someone a wonderful gift.
If i was going bald, i would shave it all off. Don't worry about losing your virginity man, it will come 20 isn't even that old to be a virgin, people hold out for much longer than that, voluntarily, and in-voluntarily.
Go to the library and study, and take a break and say HI to people in the library lounge. 
People really do fear what they do not know, and what is different. The real you (your soul) is beautiful and I am confident you will find someone special. That person will find you too. 
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