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Old Sep 28, 2007, 08:04 AM
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does anybody hate being naked in front of your man im on the vuluptious side but im not that big my problem is i had my son and now my belly hangs and i think it looks horrible i can walk around with my nickers / thong on but not without i love my partner and i no he loves me but i feel embaressed i have tryed excercising but everything else tightens up but not my belly when we have sex it is great but i cant relax fully as i keep on thinking how does my belly look , does anybody have the same problem as me please give me some advice also it would be good to here from the men who are reading this , and give me your honest opiniun on what looks good naked ! thank you x
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Old Sep 28, 2007, 08:47 AM   #2  
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does anybody hate being naked in front of your man im on the vuluptious side but im not that big my problem is i had my son and now my belly hangs and i think it looks horrible i can walk around with my nickers / thong on but not without i love my partner and i no he loves me but i feel embaressed i have tryed excercising but everything else tightens up but not my belly when we have sex it is great but i cant relax fully as i keep on thinking how does my belly look , does anybody have the same problem as me please give me some advice also it would be good to here from the men who are reading this , and give me your honest opiniun on what looks good naked ! thank you x
Good is what you make of it. My lady doesn't have the tightest of bodies but when we are getting in bed or after some cuddling it doesn't matter. Now if she was just skipping around the house nude, it might not be as sexy. make yourself sexy, I little stripping... tease him. Trust me he will love it. As for the belly... do you do crunches?
And the bad boy in me says send pictures and I will judge! LOL

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bluerose agrees: Good answer. Spend more time thinking about what turns you both on and less time thinking about your belly and just think about having fun.
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How long ago did you have your son?
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Keep up with it...it may take longer to get results than you think. But given it time. The further you have to go the longer it will take. But the results will be worth it both for you and your husband. He appears to be an understanding man so try not to be disheartened. Perhaps talk to a personal trainer, you may have simply chosen the wrong exercise or are doing it incorrectly. But don't stress out about it excessively. He still enjoys being with you and that speaks volumes.

Coincidently my wife is a fitness fanatic, and its me that needs to lose a few pounds.
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Good is what you make of it. My lady doesn't have the tightest of bodies but when we are getting in bed or after some cuddling it doesn't matter. Now if she was just skipping around the house nude, it might not be as sexy. make yourself sexy, I little stripping... tease him. Trust me he will love it. As for the belly... do you do crunches?
And the bad boy in me says send pictures and I will judge! LOL
hey u r a bad boy no pics im afraid havnt got any i will try and relax more so w can even better sex thanks 4 ur reply it made me laugh x
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Keep up with it...it may take longer to get results than you think. But given it time. The further you have to go the longer it will take. But the results will be worth it both for you and your husband. He appears to be an understanding man so try not to be disheartened. Perhaps talk to a personal trainer, you may have simply chosen the wrong exercise or are doing it incorrectly. But don't stress out about it excessively. He still enjoys being with you and that speaks volumes.

Coincidently my wife is a fitness fanatic, and its me that needs to lose a few pounds.
thanks 4 ur adivce i will try a bit harder on the exercise and c what happens
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I can empathize, really I can but this is my point...

I think every woman, no matter their shape or size will have a flash of insecurity in the bedroom! Which personally for me makes it a bit easier and I feel i'm not alone!

Try to not let it take over you, confidence is the key hun!
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thats so true thanks just gotta say lovin the name moomin!
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