Need to ask about something guys

Okay, now I'm confused. You are breast feeding but your fianc? Does not cause you to express milk?

Isn't that unusual? Or not?

No I didn't go see a counselor I looked up counselors in my area and called one to see what could be done.

Sorry, but you've been "caught" again. That isn't how it works. You don't call, explain the problem at length, ask what "could be done" and get advice over the phone.

Carol, THIS:
Is exactly what we're talking about. Nothing you post is consistent.

Either give us the truth, or please leave the site.

I was referring to before I had a baby. If you review Carol post before mine she wrote"milk can come out of your breast if a guy sucks on them" then I wrote what I wrote. Before a baby was even thought of my fianc? Used to perform this act on me but milk never came out of my brest. If he does it now then yes milk will come out due to me breastfeeding. I should have wrote "came" instead of "come" in my post.

I'm sorry but the term "nutbag" comes to mind.

You need psychological help. Your posts are inconsistent with a "normal" person.

I'm sorry I have to be the 50th person to tell you this...

Carol, I don't think you should say anything else nor try to explain yourself. Every time you write something you just dig a deeper hole for yourself and right now your at 5ft.

Just get help asap.

With all due respect, I don't think this needed to resort to name calling. Does she need to get some serious help? Oh yeah! But I don't think we want to turn it back to the days when someone with a phychological brain disorder gets called a nutbag, or many of the other names that are still commonly used.

But Carol, seriously, you need to get yourself some help not today, but yesterday. You can't even keep track of your own stories. That is what happens when you don't tell the truth. It has a snowball effect, and sooner or later that snowball runs you right over. We don't have to be geniuses to tell when someone is lying to us, and in this case it is so obvious that it couldn't hit us in the face any harder. Please go and get some help, no matter where it is you have to get it. This can only get worse without it.

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45notdaddy agrees: A- Freakin'- MEN!
JudyKayTee agrees: Substitute any other slur and it's just as offensive.

Thanks you guys! It just starts to get under my skin when phychological problems, aren't recognised because you can't physically see them, as you could as...well let's say someone who has been in an accident and has a huge gaping gash on their head. You would pay attention then right? You'd "see" the blood! But when you can't "see" it with your own eyes, many people just say "woohoo" :swirling finger around head::

Are some people just a little "off" because of their personalities? Hell yeah! Are some people just quirky and get their thrills out of getting a lot of attention. Many do, but there is always a reason for that kind of behaviour also. But when it gets to a certain point where there is a delusional or off balance type of behaviour, then the derogatory name calling needs to stop.

This is your BRAIN! What does your brain do? Well of course it controls every single thing you do right? The way you talk, the way you walk, the way you think.....well it's what keeps you functioning and alive!

Carol, I don't know exactly what the nature of your problem is, because no one here can diagnose you, but I do know...as well as everyone else here, that you have serious problems. Lets even say you are a troll, just for arguments sake. You still have serious mental issues that need to be addressed, if you think it's fun to come here and take up others time.

There is one thing I can say for sure. You are bucking for attention, and you are looking for your identity. You are trying to identify yourself by being a cutter, a sexual devient, amoung other things. You don't know what this is doing to your self worth. You haven't got the ability yet, as far as your brain development goes, to see around corners and figure out how this will effect your life in the future. You are looking for short term relief.

There is help for you if you want it, and you definitely need it! So once again, see a professional by whatever means you need to, so you can be diagnosed and get the help you need with your particular problem. Forget about the boys, and focus on yourself. You are missing out on the best yrs. Of your life if you don't.

You can still talk to us. All we ask is that you tell the truth!

Out of greenies - as always, Starbuck, from the heart, meaningful, touching.

(What we need here is the board psychic reader to tell us what is going to happen next - if she's finished on the dog board).

I continue to be amazed by the postings which are either full out or borderline offensive. Name calling, things of that nature. Sad. Whatever happened to tolerance, sensitivity?