| Even when you're not married, you feel the same way. Go figure relationships and a thing called comfort zone. Our way of life leaves us so busy, concentrating on work and our family that we forget to focus on ourselves and our spouse. You think it's hard for you but for a woman, having to think about her kids constantly and how she's looking at her age, is even harder. I agree with Tamed, you must have your one-on-one time with no interruptions: no kids, no phones. If you've got the money, plan a weekend get-a-way to a near by fancy hotel. Go to the spas to relax your body, get body massages and facials. Give yourselves a make-over. Go out to dinner in your best attire and then back to the hotel to rekindle what you've lost. Try to do this once a month! Change the venues and the activites that will take place. Think romantic! Sweep her off her feet and again and make her feel beautiful! She's got to look it in order to feel it! That goes for you too! Then all eyes will be on you two, on each other! Good luck! |