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You should never let him talk you into doing something you are not comfortable with. When he asks again tell him you didn't like it and you aren't going to do it. He'll probably keep asking. But don't let him ask as he's sliding his penis in!
Tell him you'll let him have anal with you again AFTER you get to give HIM anal--with him receiving--with a strap-on. If he wants to go there, he has to be willing to take it there.
thank you for all comments he did it one time for his joy only not mine its some thing i dont feel comfortable and its lots of pain i refuse it at first than he said just to try for 1 time than he keept asking for it .
He definitely need to learn self restraint as if it hurts he went too fast. He didn't give you time to get ready, he can't dive right in...you have to effectively warm up (loosen up) prior to going at it.
If he can't or won't do that for your benefit then I can understand your reluctance.
I'm not kidding here but get a dildo the size of his....and say yours first...perhaps thats what it will take for him to understand when you say slow down.
That will get him to understand the concept of slow and easy if he won't listen.
He probably asks because he wants to try something different in your sex life.
I find being on top (straddling my husband) I have control over how fast, deep the penetration goes and hard the thrusts are. Remember, relax, lots of lubrication (Astroglide, Eros, Doc Johnson’s Spike, Anal Lube and K-Y Jelly) and a condom!!! (vaseline and oil based lubs can damage the condom)
But ONLY if you want, do not let him pressure you. And as the other contributors have said buy a dildo or vibrator and ask him to participate equally.
Here's how you do it RIGHT! In the first place, you don't ask for it. You train her to want it.
I've always got my hand involved in whatever I'm doing anyway..... I'm on top. I'm reaching around and under her to check out the action. As I move around, my hand and fingers naturally slide over her anus. I linger for a moment just resting my finger there. Then, as I'm slowly thrusting, I use my finger to run around the rim of her anus. After a few times of this, I slowly insert just the tip of my finger in. Of course, it's wet and my finger slips in easily. A little later in the relationship, I find my finger embedded deep and she's begging for it. Of course, things progress from there.
The thing about this, is that it's VERY, VERY mutual..... And, it isn't something that happens in a night. It doesn't happen in a week. Nor, should it. But, when it does, it's gooooooood.
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