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My boyfriend loves anal sex with me, I am not quite the same. SOMETIMES I am in the mood for it, but usually I just want to have vaginal sex.
Does anyone here like anal sex or no????
Any tips on enjoying it more?!?!?
I really want to do it more because my boyfriend LOVES it.
well, my husband is obsessed with anal sex. He says I have god's most perfect . Anyway, he is always pestering me to have it with him. We have been together for almost 5 years and I have only done it twice. I HATED IT! I just couldn't tolerate the pain (he has a big one!) He knows that when I do do it I do it for him alone. And he only gets it on the RARE occasion. anyways, my advice is just tell him that you do like it...but you have to be in the mood. My guess is, he will understand. As long as he's still having sex with you in ANY way, he will be happy. Good luck, get back and lemme know how the convo went.
I really don't like anal sex. I've tried it once, for me it was too painful to want to try again. However I know a lot of people who really enjoy it. Don't feel weird if you don't like it, my boyfriend wants me to do it again but I tell him no and he understands why. lol.
i dont like the whole idea of it , it grosses me out, i have to be drunk to do it. But i feel if i say NO to it all the time , i wont be satifistying him totally and he would want to leave me for someone who will. He LOVES anal sex.
Oh so he needs to have anal sex??? Well then you guys have to find some kind of happy medium. You shouldn't feel forced to do something you don't want to. And if he doesn leave you for someone because you didn't want to have anal sex, then he wasn't worth your time in the first place.
i dont like the whole idea of it , it grosses me out, i have to be drunk to do it. But i feel if i say NO to it all the time , i wont be satifistying him totally and he would want to leave me for someone who will. He LOVES anal sex.
does he satisfy you totally all the time?
in a healthy relationship a person shouldn't have to do something they don't want to do or doesn't like doing.
I am of the opinion that if you don't like it you should tell him so. If you fear that he will leave you for a woman that does like it then I guess you will know that he never really loved you.
my husband likes anal sex too but i dont like it very much because of the pain...if you have a good lube it is ALOT better...try a lube with it and only let him go in a little bit at a time until he can go all the way in you...good luck!
a good lube will definitely go a LONG way. We use Ky Warming Sensation jelly, whether anal or vaginal...but even though i don't like anal, and i've only done it a few times...the times i have done it the warming jelly makes it feel kinda good. lol
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