Me and my partner has been together for 7 years. I'm 26 and he just turned 45. The pass 14+ months, he will only have sex with me in the morning, I tried to have sex with him at night, he will say he's trying to watch the new or he's not in the mood, too tired etc. I know he look at porn site, so that means he's interested in sex, but just not with me?? The last time we had sex at night was on my birthday which is in june, we used to have lots and lots of sex in the first couple of years, and it slow down, but we were still having sex at night, now all he wants to do is watching the news, as soon as the sport finished he pretty much fall asleep straight away. Am I doing something wrong? I got really upset tonight, when I tried to kiss him while he was watching the news, he said CAN U STOP!!!! What should I do???

geniegee2003

Maybe he feels like your pestering him and you only care about sex. If he still has sex with you then thats a good sign. Im very sorry to say this but hes getting older, his drive may not be the same as it was and he just wants sex at different times. Dont worry too much, he loves you and wants to have sex still. Just accept hes changing abit