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Homegirl 50 · Oct 30, 2007, 05:57 PM

[quote=stonewilder]I used to like it till I was hurt for three days from doing it. Now if anyone

fjsmith81 · Oct 30, 2007, 06:10 PM

Anal sex is so unnatural. Your anus is meant for exiting and not entering. Some people enjoy it but if you don't why should you be forced or even made to feel guilty (which is what I know he's probably doing to you). You can really mess yourself up with that and that is a reality. The reason he probably enjoys it so much because it is tight and eventually with enough anal sex it won't be like that anymore. Your anus does not have that much elasticity to sustain that kind of treatment. Why do you think that your anus is not naturally lubricated? But your mouth and vagina are. If he is persistent with doing it make him a deal you find a dildo that matches the size of his penis and use it for anal sex with him and if he can agree to that every time he wants it get rid of him because he's homosexual just like I suspected.

Homegirl 50 · Oct 30, 2007, 06:28 PM

^^^^
That, or he has no respect for you or your body.
I think you need to lose him anyway.
This is your body girls, don't let these young sex crazed boys abuse it. You deserve better.

kirriky · Oct 31, 2007, 05:19 AM

She has to dump her boyfriend only because the poor sod enjoys anal sex? Riight...

First of all, the original question didn't really invite people to doubt the morality of anal sex. She was just asking for tips to enjoy it more.

There's nothing wrong with giving in to your partner's desires as long as it doesn't make you feel uncomfotable. She did say she was in the mood for it 'sometimes'. Ok, suppose she doesn't get much pleasure from it. But does her boyfriend get much physical pleasure from giving her oral sex? I mean, both partners have to be giving, otherwise sex would suck.

In any case, there's lots of people out there who enjoy anal sex. Using lots of libe, going slowly, and with lots of foreplay, you might come to enjoy it too. If you don't really, but still don't mind indulging him from time to time, tell him about your preferences and do it less often. Make him realise it's a special treat. If you absolutely hate it, then just don't do it ever again.

As for the 'dumping' question... Saying "you're not getting that ever again" might get him thinking. Saying "i don't really enjoy it much, how about we do it less often and focus on other things instead?" will hardly threaten your relationship.

Kadehadaire · Oct 31, 2007, 05:25 AM

I agree to a certain extent, but it is unfair to compare giving oral sex to taking anal sex which is painful. He is not in pain when giving her oral, but I understand what you mean, kirriky.

S SID · Oct 31, 2007, 05:34 AM

I tried anal with my wife a few months back and couldn't continue because I didn't enjoy seeing someone I love in pain rather than pleasure. Explain how much it hurts you and as previously said, tell him you like to experiment with putting something inside his anal, I'm sure he'll soon change his mind!

Miszulaki · Oct 31, 2007, 05:40 AM

I believe that the anal is there so our toxin can come out of our system. It is porn who had introduce this type of sexual position where us woman have to suffer in some way because it is not pleansante for us! In the porn industry, they had to find new ways of entertaining the viewers. I myself did it 3 times and I don't consider doing it again. It wasn't painful for me because the only way to have pleasure with this is to relax as much as possible and have a patient pattern who will do it gently and slowly! There is a video which the porn industry did on how to do anal sex and it's very interresting! I believe all man should watch it because there's a way of doing it and be able to satisfy the woman at the same time! Anyhow, if you really don't want to do it then just don't. I told my boyfriend if you want to do it then I'm going to have to do it to you as well with a dildo so you can actually know how and what the feeling of it after it!
Best of luck!

Homegirl 50 · Oct 31, 2007, 06:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kirriky

she has to dump her boyfriend only because the poor sod enjoys anal sex? Riight...

First of all, the original question didn't really invite people to doubt the morality of anal sex. She was just asking for tips to enjoy it more.

There's nothing wrong with giving in to your partner's desires as long as it doesn't make you feel uncomfotable. She did say she was in the mood for it 'sometimes'. Ok, suppose she doesn't get much pleasure from it. But does her boyfriend get much physical pleasure from giving her oral sex? I mean, both partners have to be giving, otherwise sex would suck.

In any case, there's lots of people out there who enjoy anal sex. Using lots of libe, going slowly, and with lots of foreplay, you might come to enjoy it too. If you don't really, but still don't mind indulging him from time to time, tell him about your preferences and do it less often. Make him realise it's a special treat. If you absolutely hate it, then just don't do it ever again.

As for the 'dumping' question... Saying "you're not getting that ever again" might get him thinking. Saying "i don't really enjoy it much, how about we do it less often and focus on other things instead?" will hardly threaten your relationship.

While I agree with you to a point, we are not talking about adults in a loving relationship, these are basically kids. An 18 year old girl and a 19 year old boy who probably have not been dating all the long. This is about pleasure for this boy and I don't think young girls ought to get into the habit of doing things they feel uncomfortable with because they are worried the boy may leave them, and that includes any kind of sex.
"he'll get mad if I don't" This is not the kind of guy you want to be stretching your butt hole for.

excon · Oct 31, 2007, 06:13 AM

Hello:

People, people, people. You make such assumptions..... I guess everybody does about sex.

But, here's the truth: Anal sex, if done right, doesn't hurt a bit - NOT A BIT. As a matter of fact, if feels REAL good - and I mean REAL good.

Of course, if you're not interested - DON'T DO IT! But, there are those who ARE, and because YOU don't like it, doesn't mean it ain't great. Cause it IS great. How do I know it's so great when I'm not on the receiving end? Well, when your chick is squealing and panting, and coming her brains out, and begging for it, I can tell.

Ok, so when I say "right", I mean RIGHT. The guy can't just plow his way in. Just like he can't plow his way in to any other entrance. There is a technique. It involves a lot of kissing, licking and using your fingers.

If that bothers some of you, then YOU shouldn't do it.

excon

Homegirl 50 · Oct 31, 2007, 07:08 AM

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