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Old Apr 20, 2008, 07:47 AM
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i m 33 years old .i m dating a21 year girl for the last 3 months.my problem is that she is very shy. though she has the urge to have sex but being very shy we couldnt go all the way yet.she holds my penice in her hand but doesnt look at it.when i suck her breast she turns her head .she is very shy of getting naked in front of me.what do i do
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Old Apr 20, 2008, 08:51 AM   #2  
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You slow down and wait for her to be more ready, and more comfortable with you and her own body.

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Old Apr 20, 2008, 09:05 AM   #3  
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Not only slow down, but actively let her get comfortable, at her own pace. Whats the hurry.
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Old Apr 20, 2008, 02:40 PM   #4  
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And you keep tormenting her because.........?

She's too young emotionally for you, you're 33!!!!!

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boredINmind disagrees: Tormenting? Is this the best word choice? If he wasn't concerned about her and the problem he wouldn't have bothered with this post! Doesn't seem like a tormentor to me!
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Old Apr 20, 2008, 05:53 PM   #5  
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is it a Freudian slip that I never read the word "Love" ,could be she saw the same slip in how you treat her. If you love her all you need is time. If you dont love her leave her the hell alone!

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boredINmind disagrees: Did everyone read the comment I read, because the one I read said a little something about "3 months." Don't rush the girl into sex, or LOVE!
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Old Apr 20, 2008, 07:12 PM   #6  
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i m 33 years old .i m dating a21 year girl for the last 3 months.my problem is that she is very shy. though she has the urge to have sex but being very shy we couldnt go all the way yet.she holds my penice in her hand but doesnt look at it.when i suck her breast she turns her head .she is very shy of getting naked in front of me.what do i do
GO SLOW.....IF THIS IS HER FIRST TIME.....YOU WANT TO MAKE IT MAGICAL....BE SO LOVING AND CARING AND GENTLE...(IF SHE DECIDES SHE WANTS MORE)....IF YOU TAKE CARE OF HER.....SHE WILL.......LEARN WHAT TO DO TO TAKE CARE OF YOU

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Old Apr 20, 2008, 07:48 PM   #7  
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i m 33 years old .i m dating a21 year girl for the last 3 months.my problem is that she is very shy. though she has the urge to have sex but being very shy we couldnt go all the way yet.she holds my penice in her hand but doesnt look at it.when i suck her breast she turns her head .she is very shy of getting naked in front of me.what do i do
You should tell just tell her that, your not ready that you ,just want to take it slow.
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Old Apr 23, 2008, 03:18 PM   #8  
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Maybe tormenting is too strong a word.....I couldn't think of a word that expressed my negative feelings about this situation....this young, innocent girl(more like 12 than 21) could be in big trouble if this man seduces her.....

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simoneaugie agrees: Tormenting might be a completely accurate description. She probably has no idea that this is the case (and he is unknowing as well.) That word comes more easily to those who have had, experience.
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Old Apr 23, 2008, 03:23 PM   #9  
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Just slow down and don't push her. Let her come to you, let her start things and only go as far as she is comfortable with going. If you rush her into something she's not comfortable with, the situation may become worse. Just don't put pressure on her; there's nothing wrong with either of you, just let the shy girl bloom into the sensuous woman she wants to be when she's ready.
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Old Apr 24, 2008, 02:59 AM   #10  
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you should definitely slow down. there might be some underlying issues that are causing her to be shy like this. in no way should you force her to do things she is uncomfortable with. talk with her about it and let her get comfortable at her own pace rather than pushing her when she's not ready yet
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