I'm 25, male and always felt attraction for women. I had some girlfriends, but.. i feel that i like to see naked men. I have sexual fantasies with them.
Nobody knows, apparently i'm straight. Anyway I can't imagine having a love relationship with a man. That's too bizarre to me, maybe because i really love women.
So... what is my sexual orientation?

Lenovo

Honestly, only you can truly decide what your sexual orientation is.

MummaCrash

I agree with what the person above has said.

excon

Hello doubts?

Are you bi? If you're lucky, you are. Cause, all of a sudden your pool of potential bedmates doubles.

Of course, if you can't handle being bi, you're not so lucky.

However, you are what you are, so you might as well enjoy it. Cause that's the way it is, and it ain't gonna change. Does society like it??? No. But, society doesn't like a whole lot, and who says you need their approval anyway?

excon

smoothy

Find a guy....thats clean D&D free....and find out.....you are either going to like it or put those ideas forever out of your mind. Either way you will know for sure.


I can guess as a straight man the hardest thing to do would be to perform oral on another guy. You can't really pretend its anything else I would guess.

putimo

hi" i have the same question as you.. am i a bi...???? because i have a bf and this last two years i have a reletionship with the girl(girl to girl)i love being with her.i like the way she cares for me... we have sex morethan my bf did.... i like the way she touches me, so gentle... but now we are not together but i still love her and god knows..... i hate this feeling but dont know what to do.. help please....

NatHarv

Hi I know its the obivious but youre going thru a phase
mate
if you dont see yourself in a relasionship with a man then i dont belive
your bi at all
then again if you havnt tried it how u gonna kno if you do try itand some how it
doesnt feel right then my friend you are as straight as an arrow

americangayboy

If you are sexually attracted to both men and women, you are bi. It's pretty clear to me that you are. I hear a lot of people in these situations say that they can't imagine being in a relationship with someone of the same sex/don't want to be gay/bi and that's why they doubt they're gay/bi. That is not the case. Nobody starts off wanting to be different!

One thing to keep in mind, if you try having sex with a man, it will probably be uncomfortable the first couple of times, so don't think that because you didn't enjoy your first experience you are 100% straight.

rondom1

I'd say don't waste your time wondering what your label is simple do what you please.

also don't let people convince you its a phase for whatever reason they may have its usually from homophobia and fearing if they say whatever is good for u then that means they are gay. just let things come as they may

Xrayman

Okay, I know where you are coming from, yes you are bisexual-so what? So am I.

There is a theory that sexuality is a physical and mental thing-for instance, you may wish to have physical sex with a guy, but not like the "love" concept.

Conversely, you may find the whole man to man thing highly erotic-you may not want to DO IT physically-just fantasise-again it's bisexuality.

Sexuality is not black and white-it is a grey area. You are you, forget the label-it's BS. find a partner m or f, and be done with it.

cheers!