Is it alright that my boyfriend finishes in like 30 seconds?

If he is making sure you are satisfied first then sure it's OK. Now if as you say he is just climbing on for a 30 second ride then that is no good. If he is unwilling to do what ever it takes to make sure you are happy first, I would suggest moving on to greener pastures. There are lots of guys that will do what ever it takes to make sure their girl is happy first.

That's not usual. Its what we call a "minute man" as in he's on and he's off in about a minute.

There are lots of things he can to to resolve this....the easiest being wearing two condoms to reduce sensation...the rest take work.

Do NOT try this method unless you are also using the birth control pill effectively, as it increases the risk of breakage.

I had an ex that felt he came too fast..we used those condoms, they helped a little but not too much.

Like 450donn said, it's ok as long as your satisfied first. Take a bit of control..make sure you are. Don't let him get on until your good and ready..honestly though good a lover feels unsatisfied as much as you do, if not more, if s/he doesn't satisfy their partner.

This is not normal. There is a exercise he can do, it can be done alone or with a partner in any situation where the penis is stimulated.

Have him play with his self until just before he cums, This is also know as the point of no return where the Gspot starts to contract and semen releases. Have him stop everything and let the contractions or sensations cool down. FYI the penis will contract 8 to 12 times before coming, just so you know. When the penis starts contractions count how many there are, take note.

Keep repeating but do not pass the point of no return making sure to stop when things get to heated. Keep track of the contractions, if the amount increases, increase rest time between sessions. They go down then, well you are well on your way to success. Please note that it will take time and you do have to practice, but with a little fun and encouragement it can be a great exercise to better love making.

Good luck,
Kick

It could be a medical issue and premature ejaculation may cause you problems... Might want to go and have him talk to a doctor. This isn't a uncommon problem

In the end, if he goes 30 seconds or 30 min often he will still need to use manual stimulation to satisfy you, often this can be done long before he starts. Also how does he do or last the second time.

If you can't have one in that time then this is something you should talk to him about

You have to ask is HE ok with going in 30 seconds if he is then he is just not a good lover plain and simple. I'm guessing he just does not like to talk about it? Maybe bring it up a little more and go see a sex theripist together. He could fix his problem if he really wanted to.