after a women gives birth to a few children does she get "wider". i am just wondering. i am with a guy now, who is pretty small but that is not a problem at the moment anyway.
but what would happen if we stayed together, and got married and had a few children? would i become bigger down there? and after a few years have passed would i "shrink" back to how i am now.

hope this questions is ok!!!

thanks for any answers!

DrJizzle

In my experience, there is a noticable difference in women who have had children and those who have not. However, the difference seems to be deeper inside the woman that you may think, thus not affecting intercourse.

I dont know if this would be reversed, or shrink, over time. It seems to me that it would not.

sarah11282

so you think that it would be closer to the womb area that the difference is in, and not really inside the vagina?

DrJizzle

Yes and forgive me for my lack of terminology knowledge, but I am thinking its more the cervix (?) that would be affected.

But know that I think about it, it would also depend on how you were built. If you were really tight, I would imagine that everywhere things will loosen up a bit. I dont know.

I can say that there IS a noticable difference in women who HAVE had children and women who have NOT. I couldnt necessarily say it is a negative difference, tho.

sarah11282

ok. its just something that i got thinking about today.also my friend had a baby last week, and she is worried about having intercouse with her boyf again.
have you any idea how long she should leave it? she doesn't really know, and she said that she really doesn't fancy feeling about down there either.

DrJizzle

How long she should leave it? Not sure I follow your question.

if your talking about how long to wait after the birth before having sex again, I think it was six weeks. I was with my former wife for a couple years and then we had a child. She was 20 at the time. We were together for a couple years after having our daughter, too. Tho we were a little less... experimental (for lack of a better word), the sex was still just as great. I really dont think she should worry about it.

educatedhorse_2005

it is six weeks that the doctor recommends

when me and my wife had twins 16 months ago he told us that right after you give birth and are cleaning out you have a higher chance of become pregant again don't remember why but that is what he said

he said you would be surprised how many new mothers come back in six weeks later and are pregant again

nero2

I think it will be wider because after getting birth to a few children the opening will be bigger. I think that it will shrink a little but not to much i think. That what i think.

letmetellu

A female is very adaptable. She will naturally be enlarged for a short time but by the time that you should have intercourse again you will be back to the size you are suppose to be. As you age you will get larger but that is more the lose of mussle tone and support in the walls than it is from childbirth. I have two kids....and both were over eight pounds........and she still is verry tight and during orgasm she can tighten so tight I can hardly do what I am suppose to do.

nero2

Oh i see. So u mean that it will contract back to the oringnal size is it ?