19 year old virgin.what to do?

N0help4u · Mar 2, 2008, 10:35 AM

Some guys can be sluts too.
It isn't so much having sex but the nonchalant way some go about jumping bed to bed.

Simple Asian · Mar 2, 2008, 03:35 PM

Well I am 19 also ....and I still am a virgin and still in high school believe it or not ...lol...

And I also looking for the one that I wan to lose it to..and trust me that sound corny but lol...watever..

So I can't no give you any advise but I just give you what I am doing right now ....that just go hang with your friends and meeting new friends.....you don't look for it ..you bump into them ..and it just happens^^ >...

Remember that everything start with a friendship ....

Simple Asian · Mar 2, 2008, 03:35 PM

P.S ....dang you are a pimp..lol..got girls threw themself at you ? ^^

I wish I can ddo that XD

N0help4u · Mar 3, 2008, 03:20 PM

I guess I am just use to the word because so many girls where I live go around smuggly stating they ... Da slut, they ..... Da B****, they .....da this and that.

kp2171 · Mar 4, 2008, 11:21 AM

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amerchant7 · Mar 5, 2008, 11:19 AM

Wow...

firmbeliever · Mar 5, 2008, 11:45 AM

Anon-o-mas,
I am the type who thinks waiting until marriage is the most romantic thing.

And remember that virginity is not a disease you have to get rid of or that you have to follow everyone else around you who maybe into casual relationships.

Be different and hold onto your ideals,when the time is right you will find the one you want to spend your life with.

topladyj · Mar 5, 2008, 12:00 PM

That's awesome. I had a friend that was a virgin till 19 years old. I really think you should stick with it. I live in a college town myself. Those girls who get pissed are what you call sluts. And yes there are plenty of woman out there that don't have to have it. Actually there are lots of people in life that go the whole time being a virgin. Although I do recommend doing it once before you die. I would wait and get through school first then you can meet someone who really suites your needs as well as there's. To cope with not having sex masterbate. And I wish you the best of luck you sound like a sweet guy. OH and yes girls do like virgins that's probably why all the college chicks are all over you. I think they are probably hoping they can be the first....not worth it.

smoothy · Mar 5, 2008, 12:32 PM

I agree, sex is a personal thing....do it when you are ready and because you want, not because someone else is ready or they want, its your body.

presley · Mar 27, 2008, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by anon-o-mas

well here's the deal

Im a 19 year old male and I'm a virgin. Its completely my choice(ive turned down sex more times than anybody I know). I'm an atheist so this has nothing to do with any sort of religion, I just want something more than a quick yeah know. I've only dated one person seriously. She was a Christian so there was no problems avoiding it there. But here lately I've run into a huge bump. I'm in college and I get a lot of attention from the opposite sex and its getting really hard to turn down. And all the girls get pissed when I say no and want nothing to do with me. I'm afraid of throwing away my values, but I'm a guy and my primal instincts are running rampant.
I could go on but it takes to much time so here are my questions

Are there any girls left that want to connect instead of and run.
And what can I do to cope with my temptations.
Do girls even like virgins.
Edit- to makes things a little more clear I'm not apposed to sex at all in fact I want it I just need a bond for me to be comfortable.

I don't know thanks for reading

If a girl gets mad that you don't want to have sex with her,
You explain why you don't to have sex with her... Because she might feel
You are turning her down for her appearance.

But searching for a relationship is NOT going to help
Let things happen, the right girl will find you, or you'll find her
But it will be in a natural way

Just with the flow and let things happen
And if your worried about girls not liking virgins, its the opposite
Most would perfer it.

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